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I figured out how to masturbate on my own at a young age, but I really wish my dad had taught me first. I would LOVE to chat with anyone, any gender who was taught to masturbate--especially by a family member--ESPECIALLY by a parent, or anyone who has fantasies of the same. Feel free to friend me!
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I really can't say that I was taught. What I mean is we didn't get together and get naked and stroke together. That would have been great, but my friend Bobby and I were talking about boners and he asked me if I had ever cum. I told him I didn't know you could do that. He told me how he would stroke himself near the end of his cock and eventually he would shoot out white stuff. I was fascinated but that was as far as it went.

I had a lot of free time alone at home so I decided to try his method of stroking. Well it didn't work for me. I finally used my favorite method of standing along the side of my bed and rubbing my cock on the bed sheets while holding myself up since I liked to watch my cock while I did that. I finally got to the point where I used to stop and kept going like my friend told me, and then I had my first orgasm and my first squirting one too.

It felt so great I had to share it some of my other friends. I ended up teaching about 5 of them.
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I wasn't taught. I was just naturally hornier than average I guess, and figured it out at a very young age. I haven't stopped in nearly 40 years.
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Completely self-taught here. I think that's a big part of why I love masturbating so very very much, discovering new ways to pleasure myself over the years, figuring out how to make my whole body tingle with pleasure.
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An older friend taught me, or rather, showed me what to do. I must have been about 7 or 8, but could not understand that playing with your penis could be fun in any way, but he told me to keep going and it would become very nice. Nothing happened and no "nice" either.
Only after a couple of times did something happen, a sort of "Oh, is that what all the playing is about. So what?" But it was a little nice!
Only after a couple of nice practice runs did it get very nice. The two finger hold became three and later five. Much later a single drop, then a big drop and still later a small clear leak.
The clear drop became milky and by the time it squirted out, it became a habbit. And it still is.
A very good fiend it was!
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hi all
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I got my first orgasm climbing a pole on a swing set at school. Not sure how old I was but I am guessing around 10. It didn't start out as attempting any kind of cock pleasure. I was just hunching up the pole and realized it felt good. Hunch up, slide down, hunch up, slide down....and so forth. I kept doing it because it felt so good and tingly when all of a sudden the sensations magnified and I had an orgasm. Dry of course. So then every day at recess I was out humping that pole. I am sure that the physical ed teacher must have known what I was doing. Anyway, that procedure came to a screeching halt one day when I felt a sharp pain in my hard little penis and put my hand down my pants and felt blood. A little too much friction I guess. Luckily my home was only a few blocks from school and I ran home and washed up and changed my clothes. I can't recall when I made the connection that I could achieve the same result by using my fingers and hands.
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I was taught at around 10 by my older female cousin 12
She asked if i was wanking yet? Which I replied whats that?
She then went into detail on how to do it.
I tryed it but couldn't get it right for a while (didn't cum) untill one day (about a month later) she asked me how often do you wank now? To which I reply I don't cos nothing happens!
She said I'll show you! She took me down to the garage at the bottom of the drive (it was like the den it had a tv, vhs, sofa ect...)
Where she told me to show her what I'm doing!
I showed her what I was doing, and she said no!! You need to do it faster and for longer! Let me show you! And at that she grabs it and started banging away at it! at a hell of i speed i might add lol
She came to the point where I usualy stopped, but she kept going untill a new sensation came about me! It was beautiful i liked it i came! not much but it was defenatly cum!
There you go she said you know what your doing now!
She was also the first girl i fingered.
She taught me stip poker and the winner wanked/fingered the looser.
We never had sex which is a shame because she turned out to be a hell of a beauty!
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No, I had to learn things all on my own.
All of you are soo darn lucky!

I would have loved to have someone teach me what to do, and I am fortunate enough to have a mother who encouraged me from time to time, but learning how to orgasm was all mine.

I'd love to hear stories of what others have done to learn as well and teach about this.
Either here or via PM would be nice.
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I think most of us in the 70s had to learn ourself after talking to freinds. I did show my older female cousin how I masturbated myself when she caught me in our shed reading the old porn mags. She told me if I didn't do it then she would tell on me. What else could I do :lol:
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I have so many fantasies about my mom teaching me to masturbate, but it didn't happen. I had a hippie sexual liberation family, so she talked to me very openly about sex from a young age, and I saw her having sex with people from a young age. She asked me if I masturbated at one point when I was in high school, and she wanted to make sure I knew how to make myself come. Honestly, it kind of amazes me that she never did offer to teach me herself! It's exactly the kind of thing she would do if she thought I needed it. She knew I looked at porn because she found the stash that my best friend and I had stolen from her brother, so I think she believed me when I told her I was fine and knew how to take care of myself. I was embarrassed at the time, but it has spawned many a fantasy of me pretending I didn't know how to masturbate and telling her I had never made myself come, and letting her show me how she masturbates and then touch my pussy to show me how things feel, and then have me touch her pussy while she tells me what to do, then watch and direct me how to finger myself until I come with her watching. LOTS of fantasies about that! I have fantasies about masturbating in front of my dad, too, but it's always my mom teaching me if that's what I want to think about.

I did kind of teach my younger cousin when we were kids. We were very close in age and grew up close, almost like a younger sister. We used to get naked and play with ourselves in front of each other all the time, but she never came and she always told me she didn't really know how. I was too embarrassed to come in front of her if she wasn't going to come, too, so I never did and always saved that for when I was alone. At some point later on, we started playing with each other's pussies, and I rubbed her clit and fingered her pussy hole a little until she came. Then I had her do it to herself again while I watched and told her what to do until she came again. I get off remembering that a lot to this day, too.
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I was taught by alot of diffrent people in the begining, everyone had thier own way.
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I was taught... my uncle's best buddy lived across the street... I figure he was about 16, I was about 6. Buddy taught me how to suck him off. I guess I liked having a secret with a grown up, don't remember if I liked the taste of his cum. Apparently I wasn't the only kid in the neighborhood because someone talked and Buddy was sent away to juvenile hall. Nobody ever asked me if he'd been 'friendly' with me so I never said anything. Now I'm a much older man and have to admit, while mostly hetro, I have sucked my share of cocks. One aspect of my sexuality that has shown up as I've gotten older is the pleasure I get being a submissive... to men or women. My motto is "I love eating pussy, like sucking cocks"
There you have it, I was taught but don't believe I've ever been abused.
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The first time I came, was unexpected. It was during a sleepover with my best friend. I thought something was wrong.
After that, my best friend and I took turns experimenting at all of our later sleepovers.
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Nobody taught me anything about masturbation in the early 60s. I had read in the "Encyclopedia of Sex" a basic description of masturbation and I'd played with my dick as long as I could remember. Finally, one night in the summer after 8th grade, I was lying in bed rubbing myself while looking at Playboy as I often did. This time began feeling different and a bit scary as the sensations grew, but I kept on until I had a massive explosion of cum all over the place.

I cleaned up the mess and beat off for another hour or two for 4 more orgasms leaving my cock red and chafed. After that I began experimenting with different ways to get off.
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I learned about masturbating in fourth grade when a friend told me about it and later showed me how. I couldn't cum yet, but it felt good rubbing my penis.

In seventh grade, I spent the night at a friend's house and he showed me my first hardcore porno magazine. It was the first time I'd seen a real pushy spread open. It was wasn't long before we were both stroking. He could cum and showed me how. I kept trying but wasn't ready yet. A few more times and it happened, the first spurts of cum started to leak out. It was amazing.

Another friend and I talked regularly about sex and masturbation and when I'd stay at his house, or he mine, we'd regularly jack off together. Sometimes he would just take it out and start jacking, I was always intrigued. He showed me different techniques. We're still best friends to this day even though we no longer jerk off together.
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My very first ejaculating orgasm was an accident. I was humping against the bannister on the stairs in our home and suddenly it happened. Once I recovered from the incident, I continued to hump when I masturbated, not really knowing that males used their hand on their penis.

It was around this time that I became interested in doing things with my younger sister. I liked to show her my erection, which interested her. At first, she would just show me her breasts which were just budding. Eventually she showed me her pussy and let me touch it. I think it was the second time we did this show and tell that I got her to put her hand on my penis. It was like a jolt of electricity. I instinctively thrust forward when she gripped me. I did it again, not expecting an orgasm, since I thought I could only achieve it by humping against an object. But one more thrust was all it took and the sensation of my penis sliding through her hand pushed me over the edge and I started to ejaculate. I remember my sister was quite surprised and let go. I couldn't stop and kept spurting, my cock twitching back and forth as semen poured out.

Now, we had a new reason to do show and tell and I also learned how to jerk off.
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My cousin shown me how to maturbate when we were younger. Wasn’t my thing to do until he seen I had an erection while swimming and taught me how to satisfy it
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I wasn’t really taught how to do it but I did hear some of my friends talking about it when I was younger during pe and I went home and tried it after school and after I finally figured it out and had my first orgasm I was hooked. I did teach my younger brothers though and even got to see one of them have their first orgasm. Anytime we would be home alone or late at night after our parents went to bed we would jerk off together we would even watch porn together.
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I was taught the joy of self pleasure by a good friend and older male mentor, he was in his 40’s and I was in my early 20’s. We use to talk about all kinds of sexual pleasure and experience and one night he asked me if I wanted to learn more about self pleasure and my sexuality. I felt very comfortable with him, so I said Yes. We both got naked and I was amazed at the size of his cock. It was 7’ inches long and thick. I am 6’ inches long and thick. I watched him as he lubed up his cock and started stroking himself and telling me what to do. It all felt so natural back then and I really did enjoy watching him stroking and him watching me stroking. I taught me about edging, and teasing myself. Over the years, I have found myself enjoying watching solo males stroking themselves and watching guys giving guys handjobs.
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