Any Straight Men Here With Sexual Fantasies About Other Men?

[hotsauce]

Greetings,

Do any straight men here have sexual fantasies about other men that you want to talk about and explore further in greater detail with various role playingdiscussions?

Whatever your fantasy is - from kissing/foreplay to full on sex in every possible way. From basic to the most taboo/extreme.

Anything goes.

What have you wished you could act on, but would never act on it in the real world because of a wife/girlfriend you have and any other reasons?

I would love to talk either in PM or on this thread if anyone is interested.

Thanks!

H

[hotsauce]

One of my very first sexual experiences was with a man. He was a tailor and he ran his hands over my cock various times when he was taking the first measurements. I didn't really feel anything but when I went for my first fitting he did it again and on this occasion, I felt something I had never experienced before. It was a nice feeling, not necessarily arousal but I felt I was feeling something that made me feel good. That night I masturbated thinking of a man.
I have then had sexual encounters with other men, I have felt attracted to some men and definitely I have masturbated thinking of other men as recently as last Friday.
I don't consider myself gay or bisexual. I would say my thoughts on men are less than 5%, while women have a huge advantage in what I desire but I can't hide the fact that I have felt sexual attraction toward other men and have fantasized about men. Yes, I do like to read male fantasies and read stories of men doing stuff with other men. And definitely, I am not afraid to express that men have formed part of my sexuality and I wouldn't evade having sex with another man.

Thanks for responding. That was really interesting.

I couldn't send you a message yet- I guess because I am a newbie, but if you wanted to reach out to me to talk further. Please do so.

[hotsauce]

One of my very first sexual experiences was with a man. He was a tailor and he ran his hands over my cock various times when he was taking the first measurements. I didn't really feel anything but when I went for my first fitting he did it again and on this occasion, I felt something I had never experienced before. It was a nice feeling, not necessarily arousal but I felt I was feeling something that made me feel good. That night I masturbated thinking of a man.
I have then had sexual encounters with other men, I have felt attracted to some men and definitely I have masturbated thinking of other men as recently as last Friday.
I don't consider myself gay or bisexual. I would say my thoughts on men are less than 5%, while women have a huge advantage in what I desire but I can't hide the fact that I have felt sexual attraction toward other men and have fantasized about men. Yes, I do like to read male fantasies and read stories of men doing stuff with other men. And definitely, I am not afraid to express that men have formed part of my sexuality and I wouldn't evade having sex with another man.

Thanks for responding. That was really interesting.

I couldn't send you a message yet- I guess because I am a newbie, but if you wanted to reach out to me to talk further. Please do so.

We have to be friends to send and receive messages. I'll send you a request.

Good to know. I added you as a friend. Let's talk.

[binoculary]

Oh man, totally! For decades I’ve been writing fantasy stories about being with one of my best friends from school. He’s usually the one i fantasize about during masturbation, or even if fucking my girlfriend wasn't getting me off. Over the years my fascination with cocks has only grown. I’m so jealous watching videos of guys who can selfsuck. My biggest dream is to have a cock in my mouth. But I could never kiss a guy or want to date/love/marry one. It’s all about the cock and tasting another guy’s cum.

[magnumbuster]

I had a wild trip through my life concerning cock and my own sexuality.

When I was a teen, just learning about sex, I had a buddy I would spend the summer with, sleepovers, all that. And of course, out came the porn mags (usually stolen from his dad). We would spend hours jerking off together but nothing to each other, mostly under the covers, unseen. Then one night it changed when he asked if I needed a hand. From there, we experimented with mutual masturbation and blowjobs.

However, for damn near 15 years after I hated that I did it. Guilt. Mostly because after that particular summer, he brushed me off. So for a long time, I was "straight". But, over the years, the need started to come back again. And I had a few random encounters. So now I can confidently say I am bi.

That one summer really sticks in my mind, though, the initial shyness, exploration, and then just getting together for the sole purpose of being fucking perverts.

[jpcrubbing]

I agree 100% it would be just 2 guys getting eachother off

[hotsauce]

I've always fantasized about fucking other men. It's weird, I find it incredibly sexy but in a almost masturbatory way. Like I want to cum with a man and make him cum, but that's it. I want to make love to a woman. I feel like sex with a man would be just so casual and almost just like we're helping each other get off and that's it. Maybe I go ass up face down in a hotel room and just let some stranger come in and fuck me without looking at them, just whatever it's casual

I feel the same way. Send me a message if you want explore this fantasy.

[blackboxer500]

I’m 65 and have been on sex forums since the internet dialup days of the 1990s, and this is a very common development for straight men. And a common reaction from others often is something like “well then you’re not straight.” Which IMO completely misunderstands human sexuality and how it changes over time.

My thinking is that when young hormones are fully in charge of one’s sexual behavior, men who do not have overwhelming same-sex desires find it very easy to simply go along with society’s normative rules favoring straight couples and focus exclusively on females. Our cocks seek release, and vaginas are perfect for fucking. We like how girls look and feel and kiss and it’s fairly easy to be entirely straight (so long as you get as much sex as you need).

As we age, the urge to thrust into something until you cum is qualitatively the same as it ever was, but the urgency level is lower, allowing a broader consideration of sexuality. All guys love cocks — at least they love their own — and it’s natural to extend this love to other guy’s cocks.

And as with other comments in this thread, my attraction is primarily to the cock itself, especially when it is hard and ejaculating, and the farther things get from genitalia, the less attracted I am to maleness. Whereas with women I love everything about them, top to bottom, day in and day out.

So I could be married only to a woman, be in love only with a woman, and crave on a continual basis only women. But for pure sex, I want it all.

[pete120]

I always disregarded labels. All I knew was that I was a sexual being. Maybe human Maybe not. Now that I learned that I am neuro divergent( non autistic). Having a difficult LD growing up made me unlike any other kid. Also, I had severe introversion and OCD which made me severely hypersexual. Now that I know so much about neuro diverse spectrum, I know why I was very mature and advanced when I was young. Living as a "young mature person" is one of the experiences neuro diversity brings .So, all my issues made me not even focus on sexual labels. Then to make matters worse I felt very out of place in my body sometimes. I went through phases where I would experience hyper sensitive feminine feelings. Also fem Interests too. That is what I now have learned gender fluid/demi sexuality. So, to wrap my mis placed reply up. I think labels can be useful but also very inaccurate. I recommend all people explore with same sex experiences also fetishes and paraphilias. Be a freak. The world is dying. Be free. Lol

[bistraightguy75]

Never admitted to myself that I was bi until about 10 years ago. So, until that point, I was a “straight guy who liked to fool around with guys”.
I’m happily married to a woman, but I have a fun past with guys and I still fantasize about men.
Who cares about labels as long as it turns you on.