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I might have my bi side, but I have considered myself as HETEROFLEXIBLE. One day I was researching bisexuality and found the definition. I was surprised as to how it fitted my definition about my sexuality.
HETEROFLEXABLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.
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mash2014 wrote: Fri Oct 28, 2022 3:44 am I might have my bi side, but I have considered myself as HETEROFLEXIBLE. One day I was researching bisexuality and found the definition. I was surprised as to how it fitted my definition about my sexuality.
HETEROFLEXABLE
* You're mostly into the opposite gender, but you've been attracted to the same gender once or twice in the past.
* You only seriously date people of the opposite gender, but you sometimes like to "have fun" with the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you're curious about experimenting sexually or romantically with people of the same gender.
* You're happy being straight, but you've tried being with someone of the same gender and enjoyed it.
* You don't completely rule out being with someone who shares your gender, but you'd only do so in special circumstances.
* The idea of never being with the same gender makes you feel like you'd be missing out on an important experience.
* Or, conversely, being with the same gender is something you could take or leave—a recreational activity, not a necessity.
* Terms like "bisexual" or "queer" don't feel like they fully capture who you are.
For the most part, this is close to my thoughts. I haven't been attracted to men or had romantic thoughts, but I do want to experiment and have fun. I feel like I missed out on some experimentation as a young teen so I have become increasingly (slowly) open to mutual touching/fondling and masturbation with men as I have matured.

I have not wanted to kiss a man or be romantic, but a close female friend said it really turns her on to see two men kissing, so I could do it if she was there. I've had a man try to kiss me, but I have politely declined.

Under the right circumstances, I could get into oral activities, my main interest being the one doing the sucking, feeling a throbbing penis in my mouth, and receiving a warm load. I've had a number of offers/requests from men to suck my dick, but so far I've only let one man do it briefly.

Generally I don't have an interest in anal penetrative activities but I could see myself doing it just for the experience, particularly in a MMF threesome, lost in the moment, with the woman watching. I fantasize about doing a young, thinnish, smooth guy from behind (18+), but on the receiving end, my fantasies revolve around being on my back and spreading my ass to submit to a mature man with an average sized but fat cock who has his way with me before pulling out and cumming on me while I jack off.
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wheelboy2 wrote: Fri Nov 05, 2021 8:57 pm
olddadhornycock wrote: Fri Nov 05, 2021 1:48 am I am the same way. Would love to suck a cock dry but not attracted to the man
I want sex with men or women, but can only fall in love with women. To be clear, I don’t act on my same sex desires, so maybe it’s more accurate to say bicurious, but I have a strong desire for hard cocks, especially ones that are ejaculating. I don’t want to kiss guys or feel them up, except their cocks, and would prefer to not even see their faces, haha.
That describes me to a T. Absolutely zero interest in any male except I'd like to swap cock looking, feeling, masturbation and maybe sucking with most males (most males = no hairy sasquatch males at all!)
I know what a cock needs to feel good and I'd like to try out on others what I do to myself.
Me too...I adore my big cut cock and would be attracted to similar
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trouble55 wrote: Sat Oct 29, 2022 8:43 am
wheelboy2 wrote: Fri Nov 05, 2021 8:57 pm
olddadhornycock wrote: Fri Nov 05, 2021 1:48 am I am the same way. Would love to suck a cock dry but not attracted to the man
I want sex with men or women, but can only fall in love with women. To be clear, I don’t act on my same sex desires, so maybe it’s more accurate to say bicurious, but I have a strong desire for hard cocks, especially ones that are ejaculating. I don’t want to kiss guys or feel them up, except their cocks, and would prefer to not even see their faces, haha.
That describes me to a T. Absolutely zero interest in any male except I'd like to swap cock looking, feeling, masturbation and maybe sucking with most males (most males = no hairy sasquatch males at all!)
I know what a cock needs to feel good and I'd like to try out on others what I do to myself.
Me too...I adore my big cut cock and would be attracted to similar
i think there are a lot of us that feel the same way....id love to have a cock in my mouth
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I had a couple experiences with boys prior to 12….nothing more than pressing our cocks together. One was 3 years older . I must’ve been 14 at the time, when I was at the older ones house and it had been a few years since any of these experiences. Some how he got to showing me his hard on showing through his sweats and laughing… it got to the point he pulled it out and started jacking… he came and wiped it over his curtains. Later I hid in his wardrobe jacking in my pants while he was saying..are you jacking off?
What I remember about that time was that his 17 yo cock looked massive. Thick and long. The thought of it is still is beautiful memory. I wish I had the opportunity Jack off his big cock or did so at the time. Never did happen. I questioned him about this via Facebook years later but he didn’t remember or so he said. (i was hoping for a sesssion).
Sine then, I’ve always wanted to have a mutual session with another guy, but probably didn’t realise how much until I hit 40….I masturbate regularly to guys jacking off together or each other regularly. I have no interest in kissing or anal, which is where most videos go unfortunately for me. But id love to have a nice big shaven cock to play with and pleasure and see what ecstasy I could bring with it. My wife and I have talked about it and she’s fine, but I find it difficult to find someone with similar interest that I find is cool to do just that etc…
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Further to that, I do have a thing for what I think are good looking cocks in porn
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I have always been Bi/Pan. My life long hyper sexuality (caused by OCD) showed me I was a bi/pan. I liked MtM sex so much I never had a chance to have sex with a Female.I was just in la la land playing with FWBs and other males I encountered.I am attracted to females (and MtF trans) in more ways than just sex. I am just sexually attracted to males. The sex has always been easy and free flowing. It was so easy I was able to start early (6). I can tell you that way more hunks are secretly Bi/Pan. I just need a day or two I can get them to experiment. I did it with all my childhood friends. They loved it too. I always wanted to become a sex coach and worker. I even had really obscene fantasies teaching a certain age range of males about how to have MtM sex. I am lucky I was very mature and advanced at a early age. I had 3 mature male neighbors that taught me how to pleasure men. Is that abuse? Professionally it was. To me it was not. I was grateful to have mature age neighbors to help me figure out what I liked.
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I've given oral to guys and enjoyed it. I haven't tried to do it again many years.
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theoldschoola wrote: Thu Apr 03, 2025 7:05 pm I've given oral to guys and enjoyed it. I haven't tried to do it again many years.
My only experience with other guys was teen years and it was just jerking each other off. A lot. Stopped around 16. Then one day I'm drunk with a buddy I've been friends with for 40 years. He's coming on to me all night and I wind up in bed with him sucking his dick. Not sure where it came from. I think it is a desire that I have repressed for decades. I still prefer my wifes pussy but she hasn't made it available for a while. I warned her something was going to happen I just didn't think it would be with a guy. I'd totally go again with this guy.
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The best time I had giving a guy oral I had him record me sucking his cock and licking whipped cream off it. He had at least a 7 inch cock, shaved, and nice thickness.
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I love having a cock in my mouth and being naked and jerking off as i do. Also love getting head. mmm
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As far as I can remember, I've fantasized about going down on other men. I guess I was in 8th grade and there was this kid I thought was cute. I wanted to go down on him so much but nothing ever happened. Fast forward some 60 years and I find myself fantasizing about giving and receiving oral from certain men, softly sucking him.
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easygoing978 wrote: Sun Apr 13, 2025 6:08 pm I love having a cock in my mouth and being naked and jerking off as i do. Also love getting head. mmm
So do I. Sucking cock is so wonderful. Then getting the reward at the end is so intimately amazing.
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