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In late 2016, AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) issued the following statement: "AASECT does not find sufficient empirical evidence to support the classification of sex addiction or porn addiction as a mental health disorder."

That's pretty clear, isn't it? But in spite of that, psychologists keep promoting the idea of "addiction" as it relates to sex, porn, masturbation, etc. Traditionally, the word "addiction" is used in association with substance abuse or behavior that is "self-destructive." Hence, gambling can be classified as an "addiction" because people irresponsibly lose all their savings.

But unless you got fired from your job for staying home too many mornings to masturbate, unless you spent the rent check on porn, unless you got arrested for public masturbation....it isn't "addiction," dude. You read from a lot of guys that feel they're "addicted" to masturbation. No....you're just passionate about it. You're an enthusiast; not an addict.

If someone was really, truly doing nothing else all day besides masturbating (and I'd think your cock would get a bit sore, even WITH lubrication), that person probably has other mental issues besides just sexual ones. Hey, I like to masturbate as much as anyone, but it's not all I do. I have other interests and projects.

I like to look at pictures of naked people when I masturbate; especially people who are masturbating. Nothing odd about that. I enjoy seeing other people doing what I'm doing. Fishermen look at fishing magazines. Sports fans look at sports magazines. Car enthusiasts look at car magazines. But nobody ever talks about "addiction" with regard to THOSE interests.

I strongly suspect that there's some connection between this talk of "addiction" and people's politics. I'm talking about the people who promote "abstinence-only" sex education. The people who discriminate against gays. The people who want to limit women's access to contraception. Starting to get the picture?

I just don't think that "liberal-minded" people are too concerned about "addiction" regarding sex. Sex - with a partner or with yourself - is a beautiful thing. It's love.

That said, there are certainly husbands who are inconsiderate toward their wives, regarding their use of porn. But that doesn't make them "addicts." They're just assholes. And there are certainly plenty of women out there with self-image issues who insist that all the sexual pleasure in a relationship has to originate from within the relationship. Next thing you know, they'll be calling the Thought Police on you for having a fantasy.

So, there are a lot of couples with sexual issues. There are a lot of couples that have never broached the subject of masturbation. That's sad.

But the word "addiction" is just being misused and abused.
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I will admit, I am definitely addicted. I dont have a current girlfriend. I am 53, and I am more horny now than I have ever been. I think it mainly comes from the internet and the availability of porn without having to go out and get it. I mean, cmon, when I can watch cuties such as Little Caprice, Dido Angel, Pinky June, Tiffany Thompson, and oh my god so many more, I cant get enough. And especially since it is all free. I mean, if you add up all the time on the internet that I spend, the leader would be tube sites such as Pornhub, Xhamster, Tube8, Youjizz, etc, followed by sports sites since I live in Vegas and gamble for a living, but porn out does what I do for a living. And even if I had a girlfriend which I did a few years ago, she would have to be comfortable with me watching porn, because I mean, lets be honest, there are some out there that will always blow away yer best girlfriend, and I was lucky enough that my last girlfriend realised that, and she loved to watch porn as much as I did. Unfortunately, she moved away. But I will never change. Porn is out there for a reason, and one reason is for me to enjoy, and nothing, I MEAN NOTHING will ever stop that.
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We all have different addictions.. it's normal. I know people who have been gambling for many years and couldn't stop. I think it all depends on each of us and how we can control ourselves and our desires. I've also been playing for a very long time and I don't' regret it. Of course I don't always win, but when it happens I get a lot of money and it's worth it. Gambling helped me with money and I helped my parents, although they were a bit against of it. I'm an old player on clubvip777.com and I really recommend you to try.
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I don’t curl up with porn for hours on end. There are times I surf porn sites but only on rainy days or when it’s too cold to go out nude.
My cock and my lust is always with me at some level of excitement but I incorporate my sexual desire into my daily activities so no I am not addicted to porn. Nor could I ever be.
I agree with the OP on this subject.
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I agree with the original post.

Masturbation is something I really enjoy and sometimes like to share with other people. For me its a part of my usual routine (usually daily alone time with porn); needed like sleep, eating and other basic things.

But I also occasionally like to give in to the strong urge to jack off away from home (for example, outside while camping) or to go to an adult establishment where I can satisfy my desire to openly masturbate with people watching, see other men's cocks, and maybe engage in mutual touching/fondling with other men.

I also think the people who associate masturbation with addiction are the same ones who were told bad things would happen if you did it (grow hair on your hands) or who do it but feel guilty about it.
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rathb69 wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 10:49 am I agree with the original post.

“I also think the people who associate masturbation with addiction are the same ones who were told bad things would happen if you did it (grow hair on your hands) or who do it but feel guilty about it.”
I was encouraged to masturbate openly by my mother. I did it sitting on the couch next to her countless times. Her only concern was me getting it on the couch.
She was a hippie, a nudist, and a beautiful woman so I didn’t need porn.
And no we didn’t have sex together.
Later in life I did get into adult theaters and visited swing clubs and bath houses.
I think my mom’s way was the right way.
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If it is an addiction, I am glad to be fully and proudly addicted to stroking my dick!
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I second that!
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I can see where porn might be considered an addiction. I sometimes have to make quite an effort to tear myself away from it to get on with my day.
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Yes I have to agree there is a real element of addiction at times, especially when it comes to porn. Sometimes is so sweet to just close your eyes and enjoy all the strong physical and bodily sensations of some powerful masturbation!
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iamnaked wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 10:59 am
rathb69 wrote: Tue May 23, 2023 10:49 am I agree with the original post.

“I also think the people who associate masturbation with addiction are the same ones who were told bad things would happen if you did it (grow hair on your hands) or who do it but feel guilty about it.”
I was encouraged to masturbate openly by my mother. I did it sitting on the couch next to her countless times. Her only concern was me getting it on the couch.
She was a hippie, a nudist, and a beautiful woman so I didn’t need porn.
And no we didn’t have sex together.
Later in life I did get into adult theaters and visited swing clubs and bath houses.
I think my mom’s way was the right way.
great bonding experience.
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Aww Judge, I plead Insanity!
Because I’m just crazy about that stuff.
Roflmao !
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I’m definitely addicted. I’m 59 and masturbate pretty much every day and often two times a day. A few months ago on a rainy Saturday I actually masturbated four times. I can’t get enough. My wife and I don’t have sex very often anymore since she went through menopause and I still need daily orgasms.
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I am full blown addict and I love it. I love how the need and pull to masturbate and cum will override other aspects of my life. I have watched my addiction grow over the years getting deeper and deeper and it makes me so proud. I ache for it to completely take over my life.
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iexisttofuckfat wrote: Mon Oct 02, 2023 7:25 am I am full blown addict and I love it. I love how the need and pull to masturbate and cum will override other aspects of my life. I have watched my addiction grow over the years getting deeper and deeper and it makes me so proud. I ache for it to completely take over my life.
That’s not an addiction, that’s an obsession. There is a difference.
I am not addicted to exhibitionism I am obsessed with it.
Makes me sound more in control don’t you think ?
The webs we weave~~~~~
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I enjoy searching out pictures that suit my fetich but they aren't the driving force as to why I masturabate. For me it boils down to the simple fact I enjoy, no love, masturbating. Just the idea that sometime during the day I will get off makes me hard and I dont need other outside stimulus.
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I dont gree, addiction comes in many forms and porn is one of them. I used to be a nornal guy. Love women, love seeing them naked. Love seeing them perform sexual acts. I had seen myself go from just liking the Sears catalog to jerk off to. Long story short. I got to the point to where I could not get hard fucking my GF. unless I was thinking about her sucking a 10 inch cock while I was fucking her. I actually started getting soft while I was fucking her. She knew it to. As I was trying to stay hard thinking about seeing my dick inside her. I knew I had to think about her sucking another guy off while I watch. She knew it also, she said think about me sucking a big cock. You see, We talked about it alot. It was our thing at the time. She had a co- worker with a 10 inch cock. I wanted to watch her suck it. He wanted to fuck her and they use to talk about it at her work at luch time. I loved it. Heck, I seen so many guys watch there wives/GF's suck other guys off in porn videos, so why not!

All of this was a progression. Think about it. I used to jerk off to the Sears catalog when I was a kid. Then Playboy. Then Hustler so on and so forth. Then came along the internet and I went mad. Anything you want to see. Every indecent act can be had right in the privacy of your own room. 3somes, MMf, Cuckolding, Shemales, Swingers, incest. You name it it's out there. I spent too much time watching beautiful women do all the things my GF and wife wouldnt do for the most part. All I wanted to do is jerk off, I wanted to watch my GF's and wife suck other big cocks. 8-10 inches was my goal. If I could get to watch her suck it up close. I even got to the point where I wanted my girls to watch me suck the dicks they were sucking. I loved seeing big hard cocks as much as seeing beautiful tits.

Oh yeah, porn is absoloutly an addiction. It will change the way you see your GF's and wife. You will want to fuck the 18 year old in the video your jerking off to everynight. I use the age of 18 because of the guidelines of the site. But i know a lot of men and women who would not have an issue with younger. Because we come on sites like this one, where just about everyone is like minded. So we all fit in the perv train. Everything is a go. I wish I didnt have to watch porn and come on sites like this one. But im drawn to it. I see stuff on TV, YouTube and countless other imgery that will make me excited. Then I will break down and jerk off to so many different type of porn. As soon as I come all the desires that were there right before are all gone. and I feel terrible that I gave in to my addiction again.

Thats my 2 cents.
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Porn doesn't make for me. Once I’ve seen the cum shot in porn or I've cum, porn becomes irrelevant to me. I've watched some porn, mainly lesbian, but reading for me is the turn-on. I can read a story various times and I get excited. There's a story somewhere where siblings discovered sex and no matter how many times I read it, I masturbate to it and I cum.
This is why this site made me a regular. I like to live in my mind the stories I find here. I've masturbated to many stories, be it incest, gay or lesbian, solo, cuckolding, or just fucks. I can watch a porn movie, I will masturbate from the beginning and cum quickly, then I'm off.
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