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With a NYTIMES Magazine story this past Sunday on bisexuality, maybe this is a good time to launch a discussion here by and for those who identify as bisexual.I knew that I was bisexual when I was ten years old. My family shared a cabana with another family and I realized that I enjoyed watching my friend (age 11) get into and out of his bathing suit. I had played naked with his sister (my age) the year before, so although I did not have the label "bisexual" to apply to my emerging sexual orientation, I knew at some level that I could be aroused by both sexes. I settled on a heterosexual identity, as most male bisexuals do, but it is always there-- more than "bicurious," even though I have never acted on that aspect of my orientation. But it does mean that my fantasy and masturbatory stimulation can be both male and female. I am as aroused by naked females in porn as I am by naked males; I am as aroused by m-f and f-f stories on ST as i am by m-m stories (which I have written); and the same is true when I masturbate with and for others on chaturbate. So it is both wonderful and terrible to be bisexual, in my expeience. Will other bisexuals please tell their stories here and how it works out for them?
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I'm not sure where I am on the straight- bisexual continuum. Fascinated by women and pussy, I'm not equally attracted to men, but many of my masturbatory fantasize involve guys and cock. A beautiful hard cock makes my mouth go dry.

Partly the fantasies are based on and inspired by youthful experiences. When I was in my teens I had an ongoing sexual relationship with another boy that lasted 3 years or so. Our "activities" went beyond mutual stroking, though that's how it started, but never went as far as anal sex (though the other kid wanted to do it - I didn't). I remember how conflicted I was back then, how guilty I felt afterwards, but I continued to get together with him. We would be sitting on his bed, and he would squeeze and rub my crotch. Immediately, all I wanted was to get our clothes off and get at his cock and body. On lucky days we had the privacy to stroke, frot and occasionally suck for a couple of hours, naked in his bed or mine, while either of our parents were out.

Except for one half drunk stroke session with another guy a few years later, that was my last physical sexual experience with another male. I say physical because I have enjoyed stroking and sharing orgasms online with other guys many times. I do often think about what a cock would feel like in my hand again.
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I think I am more of a bi-curious type. I have had sexual encounters when I was young with other guys my age. And I have had jacking sessions with men as an adult. I have had one encounter that ended with me receiving a blow job. I had fantasties about doing that with a guy and giving him head too but the reality was not at great as the fantasy. I still like looking at cocks, both hard and soft, but am not turned on by gay sex in any form. So I think I am in the middle on this one. Curious but not willing to try it again.
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I have tried the bi-sexual experience and enjoyed it very much. I love women but the right guy at the right time is also very satisfying.
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I had my first sexual experiences with some of my (female) friends, and for a while I thought that I was lez. Later I tried sex with men, and liked that too. So in that sense, I'm bisexual; I enjoy having sex with both women and men, depending on my mood.
When it comes to relationships though, I prefer women. I haven't been in love with a man yet; I just do not feel the kind of 'connection' I feel with girls.
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I had some prepubescent experimentation with my cousin. Mostly it was just fascination with our hard cocks. We rubbed ourselves on each other without any real penetration. We never ejaculated, but we were amused by peeing with erections, which I can't do anymore. I don't have any interest in men or cocks other than my own. When I was younger and more flexible I could suck the head of my cock, but didn't do it too often. My wife was amused, but not interested when I showed her my little trick. I've had dreams where I deep throated my own cock, but never any other cock.
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I have no many experience but i see myself as : sexual .

I belive the teory which all human are bisexual when be born and we spent some stages .I dont see myself fall in love with a man but i think i would have born in other place/time it could be perfectly my predominant preference .
Ancient Greek is a great example.
Society (and our own story) condition is this aspect as does in a lot
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I have been with both men and women, however I live a completely straight life these days as I've gone off men. That's not to say if the right man came along I would say a flat 'No'
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I call myself bi-curious, but I have had sexual contact with men twice in my life, but it was more of a "testing" kinda thing. I'd still like someday to have a more full experience with men.
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my personal preference, i'm a straight male.
i have a niece who is Bi, and currently partnerd with another bi female.
i played (co-ed) softball with several lesbian couples.
my supervisor is Bi, currently has a male partner.

my wife is a selectively BI, she doesnt chase other women, but has a very good friend of many years that she plays with when she's in town. they only get together every few years, last time she visited, i came home on friday night after work, and was headed out to our race shop to get some fab work mocked up. they had decided they were going to go out and have a few drinks & dinner, they were getting dressed when i left.

i returned home aroud 1 am, and when i walked in, the stero was on low, and they didnt hear me open the door...
i walk in to see her BFF with her dress half off spread on the couch with my wifes face buried between her legs, i watched for what seemed like an eternity, and her BFF looked up and saw me.
she jumpedup, and tried to cover herself, it was quite a sight, her brunette, unshaved, skinny, BFF standing next to my blonde, shaved curvy wife trying to explain what they were doing...
i excused myself and went to bed. i heard them walking down the hallway into another bedroom, and listened to them pleasuring themselves and each other for a while. our bedroom door soon opened, and the wife walked in quietly, and started to undress, i reached over and grabbed her ass, and she sat down on the bed next to me.
she tried to "apologize" to me, none was needed, kissing fondling, and fingering insued, stilll fully clothed she soon was straddling my cock riding me.
i noticed a shadow in the hallway, her BFF was watching us fuck, and masterbating leaning up against the wall.
it seemed me all came about the same time, the wife collasped on top of me and was soon asleep, with my cock still inside her.
after her friend left, she told me the story about how they ended up in bed together....
2 divorced 30 something women, several drinks in a dance club, and being together in the same motel room bed....
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There are so many stops along life's sexual pathway. I think of and describe myself as 'curious'. Curious because I have no direct experience on which to base my growing desire to experience another man's penis. No adult experience anyway. I did have a jo buddy in my teens and we spent plenty of time exploring the many fascinations of mutual masturbation. Although I love women and their luscious bodies in every respect, am happily married and have only pursued females as sex partners since my teen mutual jo sessions ended I have also always harbored a background interest in cocks. As I aged and the availability of internet porn came to life I grew more and more interested in male images to the point that now my masturbation fantasies are about equally split between male and female images. Unfortunately female chat and cam partners are not so easy to come by for older fellows like me so those pursuits are shared mostly with other guys, and that's fine 'cause there are so many of us in the same situation. I still harbor the same curiosity about experiencing another man's penis and may, one day, act on it if the right situation should, ahem, come up. So, there's my view of 'bi-curious'.
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I've always disliked labels when it comes to sexual orientation, because I most definitely believe it to be a continuum on which we find ourselves at different points, whether for long stretches or even brief moments when there's someone of a certain who catches our eye -- and then provides fodder for our masturbatory fantasies for a good while.

I think I've always known that I find myself drawn to both men and women; I was definitely very attracted to my best friend in my teen years, and the exploration we shared together was extremely satisfying -- and definitely still gets my pulse racing when I think about it. In the years since, I've exclusively been with women, though I've had my fair share of heated exchanges of erotica with other men. My masturbatory fantasies (when masturbation occurs for me on rare occasions these days....it's been awhile) are a mixed bag, including men, women, and transgendered individuals.

I honestly would love nothing more than to end up tangled in the sheets with another man, but I've never been one for casual encounters....for me, arousal in forms outside of pornorgaphy are born out of some form of connection. So, should I ever find myself connected to a man in a way that makes me crave his cock as much as his company, I'll most definitely act on it...because life's too short, and I want to quit denying these things I keep stuffing way down inside except when they push to the surface under pressure.
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I had some prepubescent experimentation with my cousin. Mostly it was just fascination with our hard cocks. We rubbed ourselves on each other without any real penetration. We never ejaculated, but we were amused by peeing with erections, which I can't do anymore.
Me too, except it wasn't a cousin, it was a friend. We played with each other's assholes, and played with a little girl, also.
I've never had a sexual attraction to men. The closest I would come to having sex with a man would be at a mutual masturbation party( hopefully with women participants)
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When I was young there was a "strange" kid in my neighborhood. When we first started talking I was just nearing puberty. Eventually our conversations got around to our cocks, masturbation and blow jobs. He would ask me stuff like how big my dick was, how often I masturbated, if I ever had an orgasm and if I ever had my cock sucked. Being a horny adolescent I willingly answered all his other questions and then told him I never had a blow job. He then asked me if I would let him suck my cock. Not knowing anything about homosexuality I agreed willingly. He invited me to his house and we retired to his bedroom. He was very sexually knowledgeable for his age and explained that I probably wasn't old enough to cum, but he'd still suck me to orgasm. I was standing in his bedroom and my cock was already starting to get hard. He knelt on the floor in front of me, unbuttoned and unzipped my pants and slid them down my legs. By now my hard on was already straining against my underwear. He slowly slid my underwear down my thighs allowing my now hard cock to spring to attention right in front of his face. He commented that I had a nice cock for someone my age. He then grasped my hard shaft and inserted my cock into his mouth. He then proceeded to slide his mouth up and down on my cock as he massaged my balls with his hand. After a few moments of this my body began to tense, my knees began to buckle and I unknowingly started fucking his mouth. All of a sudden I let out a loud groan and fell backwards onto his bed. I had one of the best orgasms that I had to date at the hand, or if you wish the mouth of someone else. This relationship continued for a few years into puberty and I eventually got to actually cum in his mouth many times. Alas our "friendship" ended when I got my first real girlfriend. No M/M sex ever happened again until just a few years ago after my divorce. I hadn't had sex in a while and some guy approached me in a bar. Out of desperation a let him suck my cock. He sucked on my flaccid cock for quite some time and I never really got fully hard until just before orgasm. Needless to say this never happened again since.

I guess I would consider myself bi-curious because I have never been on the "giving" end of M/M sex. A good looking soft or hard cock does get me excited, I've had fantasies about sucking someone's cock, but I don't think I could ever act on them and the male body does absolutely nothing to excite me. Although I do get excite over a nice looking cock!
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I'm definitely bi, and so is my wife. We've both had the pleasure of watching each other with another person of the same gender. But "unconsciously," I think I knew I was bi at a fairly early age. As a pre-teen, I had two very good neighborhood "masturbation buddies" and our get-togethers were always the most delightful combination of arousing and educational. We learned so much about our sexual responses that way.
But only a few blocks from my house was a municipal swimming pool, and I got as much enjoyment out of seeing all the variety of cocks in the dressing room as enjoying the pool, itself. I always found myself about equally aroused by men as women.

As an adult, I've had a few wonderful opportunities to masturbate with some male friends and the occasional stranger, and I've gotten to suck a few cocks, as well. Life is good.
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I would like to think of myself as bisexual, as I have always wanted to be butt fucked and I have always wanted to suck another man's cock, but I have never had the guts to follow through on those urges. And the older I get, the stronger those urges present themselves. I am hoping that one day all this will happen, but time is getting short as I am 53 now, and I am afraid the later it gets, the more anyone will lose interest in me. :oops:
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I've never been romantically attracted to men, but I love some sex with other men, especially sucking a guy's cock. As I meet and have sex with more guys, barriers have fallen, and I definitely have more of an emotional connection with men, which is nice.

I know a lot of men who began experimenting when their kids were grown and wife stopped having sex, or just to get off after a divorce. Some of them now prefer men over women. One reason is it's less complicated (usually), and also men are VERY good at sex with other men. I personally am sexually aroused knowing a man has chosen to have sex with another man, even though all their life they've been with women.
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I have been bisexual since I was 12, as I experimented with all three of my brothers, individually, and a few male friends. However, I was still very interested in girls as well and pursued them also. Maybe my early childhood experiences led to my bisexuality, or maybe I was already wired for it. I am married and still enjoy playing with other men.
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Same with Eastbay. I had some encounters with males through my formative years but was always interested in getting laid with a girl. Romantically and emotionally I'm only interested in women but for pure sex and pleasure I swing both ways.
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