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why pleasure in watching ejaculation?

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We know that the male's ejaculation is called the "money shot" in porn. In my experience watching men and couples on certain websites, both I and watchers often urge the male masturbator or male in the couple to cum. This puzzles me because I really enjoy edging, and I find pleasure in watching men edge without cumming, but I also find myself joining the chorus and urging the male broadcasting on cam to cum. Why? Why is observing an ejaculation so exciting? I suppose that we men "feel" some of the pleasures of orgasm by watching a man cum, and I know that many of us try to time our own orgasms with the man we are watching. Live circle jerks also provide excitement in watching other men ejaculate. So why is this so pleasurable? Is there an evolutionary explanation?Women reading this will have to offer their own perspectives on why they enjoy watching a man ejaculate. Same question applies-- why the pleasure in seeing this?
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For me to enjoy it, I need to be able to see the male tensing up and squirming around. Then it's really exciting to me, even if the ejaculation isn't big.
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I think for me, it's part of the sensory experience. If I watch porn, I can hear the moans of pleasure as they escalate and see the tensing, the quivering....and it's easy to just get lost in it. And of course, I know how that release feels, and there's just something very hot about seeing someone else let go, too.

Now, if we're talking about in person.....that's just that much more intense, especially if I can have a hand in helping bring about that release.
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Hello all,

I don't attempt to analyse why I find it arousing to see an ejaculation, be it male or the rarer female, it just excites me. I especially enjoy seeing blow jobs that complete without the male wanking off to finish, just seeing spunk oozing out of the fellater's mouth (male or female doesn't matter) as the guy cums.
I get bored watching porn for too long with out seeing spunk.

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The process of, and sight of cum shooting out ( not dribbling ) is awesome. It is the ultimate ending. Whenever I watch a porn video, first thing I do when I see something I might like, I go to the end to see the cumshot. Then I will watch from beginning to end if the cumshot is worth it. If the video ends without a cumshot, I am disappointed and would further be if I didnt go to the end first to see.

I guess we all want to see ropes flying through the air, and when we do, we then want to see if we can do as good or better. Some of us dream of taking a good shot to the mouth. Whatever the reason, the "final act" is just that, the final act. It is where all pleasure combines into one fleeting moment. And this you just gotta see. Fluids ejaculating from the body in that moment of extacy is a pleasure to watch, and can cause the viewer more excitement himself than any other thing.

Long live the cumshot in all it's glory. ;)
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I think it is because we all know that feeling just before ejaculation. That rush and high feeling we get at that moment. If we were involved in helping them achieve that orgasm (be it mutual j/o, oral or some other way) than it just makes it even more pleasurable. It truly is a special moment to share together.
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It's just a type of projeçtion and identification or reflection that reminds us how damn good it feels to cum. The slow build up creating the tension and anticipation increasing the sensitivity of every touch and stroke making us harder and harder throbbing along with every heartbeat makes us feel alive building up very slowly increasing the intensity of the moment until we can't take any more and we have to force it out cum hell or high water no matter how much it hurts we have to push through the pain until we erupt in a gush popping hard at first followed by a loss of bodily control taking the jerking to furious levels as we grunt uncontrollably not caring who hears us begging for the subsequent release followed by waves of pleasure and euphoria settling into relaxation and calm contentment aftermwe are sated when it is all over bringing that peace that has no equivalent in any other area of our lives and that relief we men need after a long day. So, seeing and hearing somebody else with the drive to get there pushing over that finish line with the last ounce of strength they have is as inspiring as a Rockie movie no matter how many sequels there are. You want the guy to get there because you are rooting for him since you know what it's like to be him beaten down having to take a beating and having to beat off. And when you see he's got what it takes to go the distance with the world class fighter you enjoy watching the beating knowing he's going to get up again, take it like a champ, and stay in the ring until the bell rings. Or something like that.
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I been going at it for about 3 hours now and "came" across this video. Now, I have never had my mouth on any cock, but I can just imagine sucking and swallowing every one of these. http://www.tube8.com/gay/amateur/hands- ... n/2503381/
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Awesome video @mushroomhead! For me, any orgasm is a view to enjoy. Watching the body tense up, the breathing quickening, finally the cum erupts. A young smooth cock being stroked and cumming gets me off almost every time.
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Watching a penis ejaculate is one of the most amazing sights there is.It doesn't matter whether the cum shoots in powerful spurts or just kind of oozes out of the swollen mushroom head and down the shaft, it's still an awesome sight. :)
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I enjoy watching facial cum shots. It's not so much seeing the man ejaculate as seeing the girl sprayed on the face and in her mouth and then showing the cum in her mouth and swallowing.
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Basically, it's just identifying with the person who's ejaculating. Since you enjoy masturbation, you enjoy seeing images of OTHER people enjoying it. Nothing unusual about that. And since it's the culmination of the act, it's always nice to see a particularly good one. Isn't it?
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Awesome compilation. Im so fucking hard right now and wish I had some of those sweet hard cocks to milk on. :D
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For me it goes all the way back to when I first started masturbating. I was in awe of how my penis seemed to take over my whole body during orgasm and my ejaculation was a visual representation of that orgasm.

I also saw it as a sign of becoming a man, sort of a right of passage if you will. I'm not much into porn movies so the money shot I would assume has more to do with from a guys point of view, a connection with the actor in that he understands what's happening at that moment.

I have a couple of women who have liked to watch me ejaculate for various reasons but I'll let women here comment one way or another as to why they like or dislike seeing a guy ejaculate.

Mostly I think it has to do with the very primary reason of sex, procreation and thus semen is integral to that.
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I was just catching up here while watching a football game, and it "came" to me, lol. Lets start with football. You love seeing the great plays, but unless they get into the endzone, it is all for not. Baseball, love watching the offense and defense, but when a guy hits a homerun, thats the best. Soccer. Love watching them go up and down the field, but a goal is the best. Same with sex. Love watching it all, but the cumshot is the touchdown, the homerun, the goal scored.

Kinda like in hockey, it gives a new meaning to " HE SHOOTS, HE SCORES" LMAO :o :lol: :D
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For me its partly because I can relate to the great feeling, but I also like to see other people have an orgasm. In porn, women can fake or exaggerate an orgasm but when a man cums, you know he's getting off. I love to see cocks throb and jerk while shooting repeated ropes of cum.
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I don't like the transformation we don't have. When from a warm lump of flesh, blooms a rod filled with life, and which gushes with life! in the truest sense of the word - life! And the length of the fountain is fascinating of course.
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Watching another person of the same sex or opposite is highly arousing. Its suppose to be (so they told us), an intimate thing behind closed doors by yourself! My gf loves watching me, as I watch her masturbate/squirt, as she watches me ejaculate. Sometimes its better than actual sex!
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I love to see my cock spurting hot cum on my wifes face
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