Learning about Masturbation - Family Members, Friends etc

[anitacosmolover]

When I started having wet dreams my mom got tired of my sticky sheets.

She got a hot dog out of the fridge and sat down with me and showed me what to do.
Then told me when at home with her and dad open masturbation is fine.
She watched me do it more than a few times.

So jealous of your introduction to nudity and masturbation - you are so lucky! Your mother is incredible. Mine did buy a couple of women's magazines - Cleo, the Australian version of Cosmo and she did buy a PLAYBOY, the second edition here for the family to look at which was pretty mind blowing at the time. I have a feeling she wanted to ensure her eldest son had started masturbating which I sure had thanks to Cosmo!

[spunkluvr]

Completely self taught. Figured out what felt good at a very early age (5-6) and never stopped.

Sounds familiar! I started wanking at six and I'm never going to stop.

[bappanadboy]

Below is my post on an identical subject. I learned at age 12, from my father at age 52, by watching him, though he did not ejaculate in front of me.
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I was born in India. Came to the US at age 25. Have lived here 54 years. Now 79. Married 44 years. Been in a sexless marriage for 17 years. My story may be unique.

When I was 12, my body was changing, I was getting erections. I had to share my father's bedroom with him. Before that I slept in my mother's room with sisters. All my older brothers had left home. They only came home on vacation. Just like me, my 52 year old father's behavior also had changed. I went to sleep first. Our beds were only 3 ft. apart. Later he would come, leave the lights on and lie down naked. On most days, I was awake. I could see everything he was doing. It was taboo to talk about sex with children. He had studied Kama Sutra, so he knew a lot about sex.

Once he was in bed, he could see me watching him with open eyes, if I was awake. Without saying a word, he was teaching me masturbation his way. He pulled the foreskin and exposed the huge mushroom on his cock head. Then he started stroking his beautiful big cock for a long time, until he had a strong hard erection, took a deep breath and relaxed. His big cock was erect for several minutes before it became flaccid. He did not ejaculate in front of me. My only regret is not initiating a conversation with him. I wanted to touch his big hard cock, much bigger than mine. I wanted to know why he was doing all that in front of me. I had many questions for him. Both my parents died a long time ago.

After watching him, I started masturbation. For nearly a year, it was dry orgasm. At age 13, I ejaculated for the first time. I have been a happy masturbator now for 67 years. Only 2 years ago, I became aware that masturbation is good for all. For men, it helps in shrinking the prostate.

[skynet475]

Friends mostly, my mom tried to have a talk with me but she made it weird and uncomfortable. Think I perfected it with my cousin

[shyguy01997]

I learned by accidentally walking into a room that my dad and uncles were watching a porn flicks in. In the movie some guy had his cock in between her tits and a few se ones later he blew a load all over her chest. I figured if I used my hand maybe my dick would do the same. Since then I been jerking 2- 3 times daily, lol

[bappanadboy]

I learned by accidentally walking into a room that my dad and uncles were watching a porn flicks in. In the movie some guy had his cock in between her tits and a few se ones later he blew a load all over her chest. I figured if I used my hand maybe my dick would do the same. Since then I been jerking 2- 3 times daily, lol

Did your Dad and Uncles say anything? Did they say "Come on, young man. Sit here and watch."

[upndown]

First orgasm was at around 6 or 7 when a friend of mine introduced a new game of dry humping. Masturbated in a similar way for years with either a teddy bear or a pillow until I started doing it the normal way when I was 10 or 11. We called the game "Up and Down", hence the username

[monkee]

. . . First orgasm was at around 6 or 7 . . .

After my first dry orgasm aged six, I couldn't leave my cock alone. Nothing's changed!

[shyguy01997]

I learned by accidentally walking into a room that my dad and uncles were watching a porn flicks in. In the movie some guy had his cock in between her tits and a few se ones later he blew a load all over her chest. I figured if I used my hand maybe my dick would do the same. Since then I been jerking 2- 3 times daily, lol

Did your Dad and Uncles say anything? Did they say "Come on, young man. Sit here and watch."

I actually turned to walk away and my dad told me to stay, that I needed to learn that shit eventually. So I stayed to watch til the guy finished.

[bappanadboy]

I learned by accidentally walking into a room that my dad and uncles were watching a porn flicks in. In the movie some guy had his cock in between her tits and a few se ones later he blew a load all over her chest. I figured if I used my hand maybe my dick would do the same. Since then I been jerking 2- 3 times daily, lol

Did your Dad and Uncles say anything? Did they say "Come on, young man. Sit here and watch."

I actually turned to walk away and my dad told me to stay, that I needed to learn that shit eventually. So I stayed to watch til the guy finished.

I admire your Dad for his support in helping you learn. Did you anytime see your Dad and uncles masturbate or did they teach you more? Learning from your family is supposed to be better than learning from outsiders. How do you feel today after so many years?

[shyguy01997]

Never saw them masturbate or anything but they always joked with me whenever there'd be a girl my age asking if I was gon rub one out later thinking about her. And my uncles(some of them), were a bit perv(not that it's a terrible thing) being brought up on a ranch miles from any city. Let's just say, them and their cousins were really close, lol

[varvara]

I am skeptical even about the very idea of having a learning process with anyone. All this is fantasy in my opinion. This is a purely individual matter. Well, about how to use toilet paper. Everyone comes into this world of vice in their own way. Everyone has their own, exclusively individual methodology. People, not machines. And everyone has their own points where you need to click to get YOUR orgasm. By the way, it's also like fingerprints. Everyone has their own. So, I DON'T BELIEVE IT!!!! The first steps and techniques, of course, may be the same for many. But, everyone has their own individual subtleties. And it all starts with a pleasant itching and irritation of the mucous membrane. That's how the genitals work. But how to proceed is a matter of taste. Like most girls, it all started with me, of course, with cowards that go everywhere. Naturally, fingers followed them. And then porn. AND IT STARTED! And it can't end in any way.