E.D. AND MASTURBATION--AND BEING ALONE

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I am subject to ED. I don't know when or where or how I got it. But it is with me (and affects the wife, too). Weight, medications, age, bi-polarity (medications maybe, like lithium and Depakote), blood pressure, etc., etc. I have had my share of Web sites--and the good one, Frank Talk--http://www.franktalk.org/ There I have done my moaning and groaning (not orgasm sounds, mind you), but good healthy discussions. I have used the blue pill, the yellow pill, the injections, and lately the pump. I can get it up with the pump to a cool, blue intercourse ready 4.5 thick inches. Enough to fit. I am turned on by images and vids from porn and tumblr. I leak, and in the shower or in the bathroom I can cum, of course not with a rock hard, 17-year-old-like boner. My wife and I have had mink-like sex when we were young/younger. I have penis envy now like never before. I could hide my little dick behind a towel, when needed. But when needed, my 5" hard-on was sufficient. So here I am, having been a follower of this site when I was erection-ready. Now I read and still enjoy and await friends to console me--and contributors to make me want to have mink-like sex. Oh, and I notice how much more I now like to look at erect phallus pictures. Maybe that penis envy thing? Please tell me I am not alone on this site. And I still like to see all kinds of sex and read about all kinds of sex. Is this too much, or is this a curse of E.D.?
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No responses to my piece about ED. I do have orgasms and do cum/come. I have a technique that works. I am interested in what others do to pleasure themselves.
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It has taken me a bit of time to re-read your post, and I can sympathize with you.
I think it is great that you have found something that works for you.
The community here is pretty good at welcoming everyone, but there is still a long way to go to try and accomodate every type of fetish/problem/situation that exists out there. But don't get me wrong, it is a great place to find like-minded people who can appreciate all types of situations.

I from time to time suffer from the same types of problems, and like you, I have found a method that works for me. This place has helped quite a bit as I struggle to understand all there is to know about the things I find here.

Bottom line, don't get discouraged. Hang in there. There are plenty of people to chat with, as well as email, that will help you enjoy things!
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Trust me, you are not alone Oldguy, there are plenty of us out there with the exact same problems and desires....
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You definitely are not alone. I'm 61 and would trade one of nuts for an erection like I had when I was 17!!! I still get descent erections, but not like I did years ago. I haven't tried Viagra or Cialis yet, but maybe at my next yearly physical I will inquire about them. I'd love to be able to stroke my cock for 4 hours while it stayed erect!!!
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You are not alone at all! I am 67 and have had ED for about 15 years! But I have not given up! I lost some weight and exercise more. I became vegan. I use testosterone gel every day and take small dose erection pills every day. I also just started tantra semen retention, which really helps. I masturbate every day, and have sex with my wife about once a week, but I cum only once every 3 weeks. I love it--I have so much more sexual energy and horniness, and much better erections. It almost seems as if my ED is cured...and I do love coming to sites like this to read and get turned on, and to read similar people to me, and different...hang in--tray some tantra--if you want an explanation, let me know--I can share my techniques!
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Okay, I also suffer from ED...but still have a successful sex life with my wife of 38 years..now for most of those who do like me for the past 20 years I also take the injection and pill...The problem lies with the prostate if it is enlarged it cuts way down on the blood supply to the penis...there is a new procedure #1 that is NOT debilitating or where they scrape the inside of your prostrate. It is on this web sited and called...http://urolift.com/urolift-system/faqs/.

I am having it done and the prognosis for the complete recovery is 100%, I have spoken to a nurse that had it done and he said the difference was night and day, no more medicines to pee no more to get and keep a hardon...cant wait...you are not alone.

By the way I also masturbate every day and sometimes twice a day right now...best time is early am when I am all alone the fantasies make it all worth while...:)
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You are not alone. Frankly I believe more men have ED than will admit to it. I got ED in my early 40s (I'm 56) I still masturbate on a pretty regular basis. In fact I've found my orgasms have become more intense and pleasurable over the years.

Back in 2015 I discovered prostate masturbation and it is very satisfying. I do that more than traditional masturbation today.
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ED cures problems in men are common. Although there is a wide range of medical treatments for erectile dysfunction available, they might have some side-effects. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is the best erectile dysfunction solution, and you can do so by various ways. These include eating a nutrient-rich diet, indulging in physical activities, quitting smoking, losing extra weight, and taking a good night sleep. By adopting these healthy lifestyle habits, you can boost your libido, increase energy, and testosterone levels.
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I have never experienced ED. At 64 I can whip up a stiffy that the cat can't scratch. I have a different issue. I spent the last 50 years starting almost every morning the same way. Get out of bed, take a leak, get washed up, and have a cum. I have seldom started a day any other way, until recently. Suddenly about a year ago something changed. I can stroke that thing until my arm gives out and it won't cum. About twice a week is all I can get it to work. I tried talking to my doctor about this. She is embarrassed. Never heard of that condition but she will read up on it and next time I come in she will have something figured out, only I keep going back and she won't mention it. Anybody else ever had this happen?
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I have ED too, but not every time. Most of the time I can get my little 5" soldier to salute, but when I can't my wife either masturbates or I take a viagra, eat her pussy until I get hard, then give her all I got.
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Dude is just a myth. I consulted with a doctor on this topic and I can argue that due to frequent masturbation you will not get health problems. Frequent masturbation up to twenty years helps to increase the size of the penis and also after that you will not have problems with an erection. The fact that you have a strong sex drive is very cool and you should be happy about it. My friend was a virgin up to 25 years old and now has serious potency problems, and every month he has to order cialis from Netherlands apotheekheren.nl and use them to be able to have sex with a girl. And as for the small penis, I can say that this is not so terrible and only for porn actors they are very thick and large and 15 centimeters is the norm !!!
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You're not alone. I had a severe case of shingles on my sacrum nerve (it's located under my testicles and anus). After shingles, my erections became very soft and sporadic, not enough for penetration. Before shingles, I had some sort of ED but I could still get a hard erection. I also lost sensation in that area to the point that I feel very horny but no matter how many times I rub my cock I don't feel much and ejaculation most of the time comes without feeling that glorious sensation. Sometimes I get dry orgasms and the feeling is great. This doesn't happen all the time, so I masturbate every day but only after a few days do I go for the big O with my ejaculation. I love to read erotica and fantasize, not really look at porn but I enjoy fantasizing about men and women. I m willing to do almost anything to get that sensation again.
Like you, I would love to have an erection so hard that it hurts.
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I'm 72 and I've been using Viagra (now using Levitra) since 1996, when Viagra first hit the market.

Back then, I didn't really have any erection issues; I wanted to use the Viagra as a sort of "boner insurance" when we had sex with other couples. But age eventually takes it's toll on all men, and our bodies don't respond like they did when we were 17.

Long story short, I occasionally use Levitra to enhance my masturbation sessions. As it should, it gives me a much bigger, harder and longer-lasting erection.
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