I can't help but respond to Izzy's beautiful success story of Aug. 9 ('The Wife & I'). While we are a few years younger than Izzy and his wife, we have experienced some of the same things. My wife is petite and throughout all of our 30 years of marriage my penis, while average in size, is all she has been able to take in her vagina. Anything larger was out of the question and as we've aged, even my cock provides her with some disomfort even though we use a lube. Also, she has never been successful in achieving orgasm during intercourse, she requires clitoral stimulation by vibrator or fingers, something I'm always willing to supply!
Like Izzy, we have incorporated mutual and solo masturbation into our married love life. Most often my wife will prefer me to finger her pussy to make her cum as she really enjoys that and a powerful orgasm is almost always the end result. I'm always game for this activity as I get turned on the most when I'm fingering her wet pussy. She lays on her back with legs apart while I play with her pussy lips and clit, laying on my side, her right leg draped over my chest. Her right hand is always gripping my hard penis, pumping away as she enjoys my hand treatment.
After she cums, often I will still lay there with her pussy in my face, enjoying the sight and aroma while she continues pumping until I cream all over her hand. Often, though, she will drizzle lube over my penis and urge me to masturbate for her as I continue to enjoy her open legs. She says watching me masturbate is something she enjoys above all else and I'm quite willing to indulge her.
But like Izzy, there are many times when I will ask my wife to straddle me after she's cum, backing her pussy near to my face, perched there above me on all fours with my penis very near her face. I lube up and proceed to masturbate for her as I feast even more on her slit, often listening to a running dialogue of hers about what I am doing, how it is turning her on, how my cock and balls look, etc. With all this stimulation, my own release can't be held back for long and I always make a fantastic mess! Much, I should add, to my wife's enjoyment.
So, the meaning of this is that masturbation can most assuredly be incorporated by couples in their lovemaking, and it isn't always necessary to have insertion. In fact, masturbation is often superior to 'regular' lovemaking because an orgasm can be more enjoyable on your back than it can be while you are propped up on top of someone else.
Keep on sharing!!!!