My ex and I were together three years and she wasn't really into sex.
I was with my ex (we will call her L) for three years and we broke up when I moved away from the area she lived in, for a new job.
As I said she wasn't really into sex, but didn't tell me until after a few months of having sex when we got together.
What she liked was having her clit played with, we used to start with a lot of touching and working our hands down each others bodies. I would normally caress her inside thighs then dip my finger inside her and she was always wet at this point. I'd bring some of her wetness up to her clit and rub it, getting faster and faster til she came then we would continue touching each other but she was really sensitive now so go back to stroking her inner thighs and her clit was normally 'super sensitive' (as she'd say) so she would whisper 'finger me' so I'd finger her deep and slow whilst she played with her clit, sometimes she would just want to touch the outside of her pussy and stroke her inner thighs whilst she played with her clit.
Once she came, it was my turn. she would either jack me off, but depending what mood in was in (apart from just horny!) sometimes she would tickle my feet (which I loved) while I wanked myself off. She would always have a massive grin when she tickled me and watched me cum, she said I always looked so happy. It wasn't super tickling just dragging her nails up and down my feet, which caused the occasional flinch. She was the only ex I felt comfortable telling what I liked (apart from one other girl)