I really enjoy this site and look forward to reading about others who enjoy the pleasures of self-love. Over the years, I have 'taught myself' to make love to myself with the deepest of passion.
I think my most special and fulfilling times are when I allow myself to totally surrender to the fantasy of literally loving myself and making love to myself. I suspect some of you out there know exactly what I am talking about and others will not.
I begin by anticipating the night, thinking about it all day at work. I compliment myself and tell myself I am beautiful and how I want to make myself feel very good tonite. When I get home I am anxious and eager to love. I caress myself and imagine that my body is rewarding me with wonderful pleasures and that we are sharing love. The more I surrender to this fantasy, the stronger and more intense the pleasure is.
For me, it is not just an act because I have no alternative, it is much more than that for me. The orgasms I achieve are greatly heightened due to my mental involvement. Isn't all this really about self-love and sharing with yourself?