My wife and I both work and truthfully many times we re are too tired to have sex when we go to bed. If you've been married a long time you know what I mean. We do have sex probably once or twice a week at night. Not nearly as often as when we were first married, but that happens.
I especially like weekend mornings. We sleep in later and get up probably around 9 instead of 6. We wear our lounging clothes, make coffee, and sit on the couch and catch the news and weekend morning shows. I'm rested and relaxed. This is when I am usually the horniest. I can easily get a rip roaring hard-on in the mornings.
Sometimes she may be sitting on the love seat by the couch watching TV. On the couch I will place my hand between my legs and gently stroke myself until my dick is wildly hard. She is watching TV and really not noticing what I'm doing. I have several options at this point. Sometimes I'll say 'Nancy' and she will look at me, and I'll have my hand on the outside of my lounge bottoms gripping my rod and I'll say ' I'm so fucking hard.' She will smile and sometimes she says 'do you want to go upstairs?' This means going up for regular sex. Other times she will say 'go ahead and jack off if you want to.' She will sit there and watch me as I do it.
Another option is I wait for her to get up and go to the restroom,, or into the kitchen for more coffee. While she has stepped out of the room, I either take my pants completely off, or I'll let my hard-on out through the open fly in my bottoms. I lean back and slowly stroke myself. She comes back into the living room and catches me slowly stroking my big hard dick. It always excites me to see the look on her face as she catches me. Again ... sometimes this leads to regular sex, or she will tell me to go ahead and jack off. She does a good job of watching intently.
Quite often if it turns into a morning jack off, I'll ask her if I can look at her pussy as I jack. She pulls her pants off and spreads her legs, placing her feet up on the couch and leaning back so she is really wide open. I love the look of her pussy. She has a huge mound of dark hair and very nice puffy lips. She will use a few fingers from each hand and pull her lips apart opening up her love tunnel. She will hold that pose the entire time I jack off looking at her. Every now and then she will rub her clit, but when she masturbates she prefers her favorite vibrator. I enjoy seeing myself squirt cum, so I never use a tissue. Together we watch my cum squirt and spurt until I go dry.
There have been other times when I've just come out and said 'Hon, I'm so hard. Do you mind if I jack off?' She has never said no. It find masturbation like this, with an accepting partner to be very exciting and gratifying, and just as good as regular sex.