For the first couple of years of our marriage, my wife and I enjoyed fairly typical sexual relations. But somehow over the years we have evolved a weird ritual that we enjoy even more. We almost never have regular sex any more. Instead we do this almost every day:
At some point in the afternoon one of us will invite the other to bed. She always starts by playing with my balls a bit as I harden. Then she sticks a finger in my butt (we prefer to use coconut oil), and strokes my cock until I cum. She says she really likes the feeling of my asshole contracting around her finger. And I believe her, because after she is done with me, I stick my finger in her butt, and rub her clit, or put two fingers in her vagina and rub her G-spot until she comes. And I too, love the feeling of her butt contracting in orgasm around my finger.
On many occasions we will edge. She will bring me almost to the point of orgasm, then I'll say 'wait.' She stops for a minute, then continues. Sometimes she doesn't stop quite soon enough, and I'll have a sort of mini-orgasm. I'll start pulsing and just a drip or two of come will ooze out. Then she'll continue, and after a short while, I'll have a full-blown orgasm. Amazing!
Occasionally she has edged me to mini-orgasms as many as six times. She only likes to be edged sometimes. So when she's in the mood for it, I'll rub her until she's very close, stop for a minute or so, then continue. And she can have multiple full orgasms. More often, however, she says she just likes me to rub her all the way to orgasm right away and be done with it.
For her, that's generally more satisfying. So, that's our weird ritual. It must be a good and helpful thing, because we have been happily married (we almost never argue) for 29 years.