My wife has had a couple of operations that have made regular sex too uncomfortable to do anymore for her. she would give me a hand job when I would ask, but it was not very spontaneous.
I ran across a ad for a Venus penis pump. It looked interesting, but the complete system is over $900.00 or so. The actual part that fits over ones penis is around $55.00, and they claimed that it would work without the vacuum/pressure pulsating pump.
So I mail ordered the plastic tube with the rubber liner, and the slip lube. I tried it out, but it did not feel much better than using my hand. I was thinking about the electric part, the price just held me off. Then I thought of a bilge pump used to pump water out of boats, I purchased one, removed the valves, plugged one end, attached a hose to other end of the pump, and to the plastic tube assembly.
I lubed my penis up, pushed the bilge pump to apply air pressure into the plastic sleeve, witch in turn forced the rubber sleeve to come together, so there was no hole in the end where I would place my penis. I pushed the end of my limp penis into the rubber end, holding it there I pushed the pump in the other direction causeing the suction part of the pump to come into play. Wow it sucked it in, sliding down to the base of my penis, but pulling my penis out to its full length while it was still soft.
The complete coverage around my penis was much better than without the pump, it felt great, with a few more strokes of the hand pump it was as hard as it had ever been before! It did not take long before I had to slow down, I was right on the edge of coming, so going slowly I must have held out for more than a one half an hour. Then the time came I could not stand it anymore, so I stroked away with the pump with faster and faster strokes, then I came, the feeling was better than any other time that I could remember before.
I think being able to control the movement of the sleeve worked out much better for me because the end of my penis is very sensitive, and I will not last long if there is to much stimulation.
There was no guilt about trying to perform, or not pleasing someone else, it all happened in my own time with no pressure as to my actions, for me what a way to go!