This is for my favorite women, you know who you are!
I'm a 62 y/o male who has been divorced for the last five years. While my ex and I had a good sex life for most of our long marriage, the last few years were sparse to say the least! I have always been rather dominant and inventive in sex and introduced her to many new things. But that isn't what I'm going to tell you here.
While intercourse is great it isn't my main focus now. I have always liked toys and the intensity of a woman in orgasm. When I divorced I began to explore this part of my sexuality. Over time I purchased numerous toys and vibrators. Some were extremely disappointing while others were even better than imagined. Three come to mind the sybian, wand and a very cheap muscle relaxer vibe with a deep low growl that takes them right to the edge and holds them there.
The sybian is a large saddle like vibe with various attachments and varying speeds. Very intense and soooo much fun! I've yet to find a woman who will refuse a second ride! The wand is more direct on the clit and when used properly can cause continuous orgasms.
I've added a set of leather cuffs and ties to the corner of the bed in my guest room to complete my play area. Please understand I would never take advantage and all is done with a trust developed between us. A rule in my house is that any topic or desire is ok, there is and will be no judgement.
When she arrives she stands before me and removes each article of clothing as I request them. So much fidgeting during but each and every time I find nipples at attention and a soaking wet pussy waiting for me. She stands with her arms at her sides as I explore every part of her body, talking to her about what I intend to do in this days session. Next we move to the bedroom where she sits on the side of the bed as I place the leather cuffs on each ankle and wrist. Lots of touching and caressing as this is accomplished. I then tell her how I want her positioned, face up with her head at the top of the bed or face down over pillows. A blindfold is placed over her eyes and now she can only hear and imagine what I am going to do and where I will touch. She will hear the wand as I turn it on low and slowly move it over her skin, breasts/nipples, neck, arms, stomach and finally up the inside of each leg. The final act is when I nuzzle it in between the lips of her sex firmly against her clit! Up to this point much of this could be do it yourself.
But the element that puts them over the top and makes them my devoted toy is what I call the mind fuck. In the conversations we have I learn of fantasies and desires she might have but can never act on. While the vibe does it's magic, my low voice in her ear takes her into that fantasy. It might be a motel room with 6 young lovers who will service her until she is totally spent. Or exposing herself in public. Any and all those things she could never do in real life. The orgasms are out of this world and take her to the moon and back. After each session like this we take time to sit and talk. Finding what was good and what was not her cup of tea. Always wanting to make the next time even better!
I've had single women, divorced women and even a few married who were unhappy but didn't want to leave their husbands. As I say it isn't for everyone but I love it and seeing those who keep coming back I would have to say they do too!