My ex-husband was great in bed and really liked to experiment. He loved to watch me masturbate and I loved to stroke my clit or use my massager on it. Masturbation became a typical part of our lovemaking.
After we had been married for about three years my hubby suggested a game. We were in the grocery store when he spotted a cucumber of about the right size, and suggested that I incorporate it into our evening. Well I began getting wet right there in the store and I happily agreed to his suggestion.
Over the next three years of our marriage we played a game about once a month, where we would go shopping and identify something for me to masturbate with. All of the obvious from the grocery store became a new adventure for me, carrots, zuchinni, bratwurst, strawberries etc. But we eventually moved on to the hardware store, hammers, screw drivers, orbital sanders are just a few of the items that we enjoyed.
My favorite of all, the bulb part of the turkey baster squeezed and then placed against my clit and labia, suck it up and get a really tight seal, then apply a vibrator. WOW. I could cum 30 times that way. Needless to say, running errands on Saturdays became quite exciting.
God I miss my ex. in bed, other than that I am glad he is gone. But he left me with a number of 'tools' for my passion, playing with myself.