I read the comment from the Christian about masturbation and learning with other guys.
I showed a friend how to do it while in our teens. I have an underwear fetish, so seeing his butt in white briefs would cause a boner for me. He noticed me kinda pressing it on the floor as I lay there. I was staring at the crotch of his underwear as we talked that night.
He asked if I did it alot, meaning the rubbing. I told him I did and that it felt really good. He asked if other boys did it. I told him, yes and then asked if he wanted to learn how.
He lay beside me; both of us in our white briefs. I started to rub back and forth on the floor. God, it felt so good. I stared at his underwear-covered ass as he started rubbing too. Neither of us were old enough to shoot cum, so I told him we could do it several times and that he needed to keep doin it. Even if he felt he had to go pee, to keep rubbing on the floor.
We both rubbed till we had dry orgasms. I was in heaven; I'd been wanting to rub with him a long time. He was a skinny Hispanic boy; me, a skinny white boy. We never touched each other, but as soon as we got into bed, he was rubbing against the bed. I got another boner and rubbed with him. I'm surprised his mom didn't hear the bed squeaking. We both rubbed twice, then I just asked if he'd sit legs up and spread so I could look at his underwear as I rubbed. He said sure, that he loved that, too.
We took turns looking at the crotch of each other's briefs; never touching, just looking as we'd rub on the bed or floor to dry orgasms. It never hurt us, but felt incredible, and saved us sexually when other boys were doing girls.
I totally agree that masturbation is NOT a sin. God made us as sexual human beings with an outlet for the pent up sexual energy. I was able to wait till marriage, thanks to masturbating. An orgasm is the best feeling a human can have physically; God does not intend for us to be miserable. Of course, we do have common sense which is expected to be used. I had a very good marriage and knew my children masturbated. When they were discovered, we simply told them to do it privately in the bedroom, by themselves. They too waited till marriage for sex because they were able to rub off when they chose. I masturbate every two days or so and will till I die. Thanks for this forum to openly talk about something all of us do.