First I am a bi teen girl and I'm told that I am very hot and sexy, blonde, blue, 38d breasts, very sexually active, prefer girls and self stimulation.
My friend is a real cute 16-year-old who is a total virgin and very shy about sexuality of any kind. (We will call her Darlene). Darlene will not talk about sexual things or masterbation with me when we are together, so we only do it on line. When we chat on line she admitted that she had masterbated some when she was younger but then stopped because her Christian teachings made her feel it was wrong and dirty.
I have convinced her that nothing is wrong or dirty about masterbation and have been trying to get her to do it again, explaining all the benefits of self-stimulation to climax.
Well, finally after several weeks she agreed to try it again by hand stimulation while in bed. I gave her some pointers on what to do and how to go about masterbating. A few days later she told me that she had tried but stopped short of finishing as she began feeling quilty.
For several more weeks now we have discussed masterbation in more detail and at times she would just cut me off and want to change the subject of the conversation. I have always been gentle and gone slowly with her and I am not trying to convert her to the girl-girl thing at all. We are good friends and she trusts me and knows that I am not trying to seduce her, not to say I would not enjoy her if she were willing.
Finally I told her about using the shower and the massage function on herself. My thought is she would not have to touch herself and maybe would find this less difficult and less dirty or wrong. She agreed that it might be ok or better and promised to try it.
Last night, we were chatting and she said she had tried it in the shower. Her first comment was it was weird. I asked her to explain weird, and she said that her legs got all shakey and week. I told her this was normal and that a lot of girls sit on the floor of the shower doing this. Her reply was that she had ended up sitting on the floor but quit at that time because she didn't understand what was going on. She did not reach a climax because of stopping at that point.
I have convinced her that she must practice this, and that the weakness was normal when the blood rushes to the clit just before climax. Darlene has promissed to keep practicing.
Any of you girls have comments or suggestions please feel free, we both can use any suggestions.