Stop & Go is Fun!
I stumbled upon your site last evening and was very pleased to find so many people talking so openly about masturbation. It is a very important part of my life. I jerk off almost every day, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. I read some of the letters until pretty late last night and read of something that I had been experimenting with. It involves the "stop and go" method. I tried an experiment with it this morning and thought that I would share it with you. I am getting hard just thinking about it and will try to write this before something comes up.
Today was Sunday and as usual on the weekend I masturbate while still in bed. I turned on the VCR and got ready for my experiment. I have several toys and today I chose a jelly sleeve. I watched the skin flick until I started to get hard and then started stroking with my hand. I like to place my thumb on the top of my shaft and my other fingers horizontally across the sensitive part (frenulum) and pull back and forth. I did this until I thought I was close to cumming and stopped stroking. I usually clamp down with my cock muscles or squeeze just under the head at this point, but I read last night about relaxing the muscles in the groin area instead. I tried it and it worked. It had the same effect and the difference did not become evident until later. I will get to that in a while. I began stroking again when the feeling of imminent orgasm went away. It feels awesome when you start stroking again! I did this several more times until I got to the point that at each stop my cock was so hard that a cat couldn't scratch it. You know the feeling. I had managed to hold off cumming for about 4 or 5 times by now. Relaxing the muscles was working with the same results as the other method. All this time I had kept the jelly sleeve in my armpit and now it was very warm. I lubed it up and slid my cock in. It was exquisite! This is where the new technique really started to pay off. I stroked with the sleeve until I almost came and pulled it off. I almost went too far and when I relaxed the muscles some semen ran out but I didn't squeeze. The desire to squeeze was almost overwhelming! I could feel the semen coming out and it felt very good, less intense than a full blown cum. When I saw semen running out I thought I had gone too far and blown my orgasm, but when I started stroking again I was right back at the same place I was before. I wondered how many more times I could do this. Each time the feeling gets more and more intense. I did this same thing about two more times and each time relaxed the muscles.
And more semen came out. At this point it was almost impossible to resist using those muscles and cumming. I wanted to cum very badly! I decided that I would come on this try because I didn't want to wait any longer! I had about three loads worth of cum on my belly already and I had the most intense orgasm of my life! Except for the orgasms that occur while using a hand held shower head. But that is a whole other story.
I definitely plan on doing this some more and see how long I can extend my sessions. I would also like to try some mutual masturbation either on video or in person. Thanks for having this site. I really enjoyed writing and sending this. You will probably hear from me again. --LJC
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