Older Folks Havin' Fun!
Mutual masturbation began for me at an early age, starting at about age 6, with the twin girls next door. That involved us playing 'Doctor & Nurse', examining each other's genitals with my becoming rock hard! None of us really knew what we were doing and nobody ever even got close to an orgasm.
At about age 15, horseplay while 'skinny dipping' with another neighbor girl in the creek by our rural farm, provided my first thrill of the touch of a developing female body and provided fantasies for many more JO sessions.
Also as a teen, some of my male friends and I would sit around in one of our bedrooms and 'race' to see who could cum first. Never any touching, just the thrill of watching and being watched!
My wife of 35 years, who I'll call 'Sarah', claims she has never masturbated, either as a child, teen or adult. I guess it has to do with her upbringing? Not to imply that she is a 'prude' or anything like that; Our sex life has always been fantastic but I've always had the need for 'more' than she and have continued to masturbate in private, but not daring to let her know I do!
Straight sex for us has become more difficult with all the aches and pains brought on by the passing years. Mostly we do mutual masturbation.
Typically I will bring Sarah to her first orgasm with my fingers while she strokes my cock or squeezes by balls. To start, I add a little KY, slide the hood back on her clitoris, exposing her peanut sized button and gently roll her clit between my thumb & forefinger, then stroke it like it was a miniature prick. Alternating this while inserting a couple of fingers of the other hand just deep enough to massage her G-Spot soon does the trick!
Sarah's 'big O' number two is usually accomplished with her controlling her favorite vibrator while I insert two or three fingers deep inside her now dripping hole soon has Sarah bucking as she shudders with pleasure. Is that not masturbating?
By then my 6 inch boner is oozing pre-cum like crazy and is hard as a rock! My favorite release involves simply lying back while my lovely wife lubes me up and slowly strokes my cock from base to tip. After a few minutes of this our tempo increases as a thrust into her fist and I spray all over both of us!
Straight sex is still good but mutual masturbation can be just as rewarding and not as physically challenging!