I have a one bedroom apartment I share with my daughter. Releiving tension at times is frustrating as there is litterally no privacy. The bathroom door is open all the time, so doing it in there is out of the question as well.
What I developed was using a Joni's Butterfly. I get out a pair of old-fashioned panties like my mom used to wear. Inside of those, I get the biggest Maxipad I can find. I pull them up with my butterfly in place. I get my robe and put the remote in the pocket to hide the wire. All my daughter can tell is that I am having my period.
The pad is crucial for three reasons, esspecially if you are in the same situation I am. First is moisture. I get really moist when I am excited and sometimes can squirt. Poise pads really help in this arena. I haven't had any accidents so far. Second is leverage. Having something big down there to push the against my clit is awesome!! I am all natural down below, having all that wet hair pressed against me is sometimes beyond words. Try it...you won't believe it!! Third reason is noise. Having an extra layer helps cover up the humming sound even more. You can hear it in a silent room, but if the tv is on, nobody else will know.
I do this several times a week, and have been doing so for several years. My daughter has never caught on. I have sat on the sofa with her watching a movie and she never even noticed!!!
Ditto my mom and sister over the Holidays. Remember, it's well hidden, and the granny style panties won't ride up, nor can you see through them, so everything is hidden. Enjoy and please feel free to comment!! Happy New Year and Happy Jilling ;-)
PS. This isn't good for those who scream, breath too heavy or move around.