It might not appeal to everyone, but playing led zeppelin without any clothes and the lights turned out is pretty exciting. Imagine some one you want, and use a dildo. You take the dildo and lube it with spit than get a little wet however you like and if you quickly [while laying down] point the dildo vertically and slide it hard back and forth on your clit and just keep doing that until you feel like you can't take it. For me anyway I spill out with cum.
I'd say use a smaller dildo so you can play around with it, [stirring it like a bowl], and do as the suggested.
Make sure you keep a large dildo handy.