I finally convinced her to masturbate and it opened a new world of intimacy
I continue to be fascinated reading the many stories of wives who claim they don't masturbate or either won't admit it.
There is nothing more intimate than masturbating together and admitting your fantasies of things you enjoying doing in private you don't think your partner or spouse would approve.
Masturbation is a natural urge and perfectly normal but unfortunately so many young girls are taught 'good girls' don't touch themselves down there.
I was married to my first wife for quite a few years before I convinced her to touch herself. Usually during intercourse I had to stimulate her clit for her to climax. She allowed me to masturbate now and then and would give me a hand job but only when she was really in the mood.
Finally one night as were lying together I was sucking her nipples and rubbing her pussy to get her in the mood I spread her pussy lips and noticed her clit was unsually hard and protruding. I asked her to feel how hard it was.
She was reluctant to touch it so I admitted I had recorded a video of female masturbation and turned it on for her to watch. I think that convinced her it was it was OK and she had become turned on watching another female masturbate and listening to the sounds of her enjoying a climax. Of course I had beat off several times watching it.
To my amazement while watching the video and listening to the sounds she slowly started rubbing her clit and didn't stop. I asked her if she was going to make herself cum and to my utter surprise she said, 'Yes'. I told her I was going to stroke my dick while I watched her rub her pussy. In less than a minute she let out a low moan and immediately stopped rubbing and I asked, 'Did you cum?' She said 'Yes'. That was her first time!
In about a minute she asked, 'Did you cum?'
I said not yet but I was close. I told her since I watched her cum I held off and wanted to wait and let her watch me. I was so turned on my dick had been throbbing seeing her finally masturbate, in only a few strokes cum was shooting all over my stomach.
From that time on masturbation became a regular part of our love making and she was more open to doing new things which made our sex episodes more exciting. Thanks to videos we learned dozens of new things to try. Fantasies came life and we were open to masturbate and do quite a few more things we had only dreamed of.
Communicate...communicate!!! You will be amazed what you have been missing.