While a good fuck is great, it's not always available. The next best is self pleasuring - don't like that word, masturbation.
I've been at it for years and it never ceases to amaze me, the amount of pleasure it provides, especially if you have all the time in the world.
I've found several different ways of going about it but I always come back to the closed fist - works well, is variable and feels just so good. But if there's a partner around, a good blow job goes down well.
I usually get a half hour or so of private time early each morning when the missus is in the shower. With fist and fingers working the pleasure build up can be great.
But ladies - keep your stories cuming so we can have something to work with while we cover our dicks in cum.