This requires a partner to be its best. Any one of the remote wearable vibrators can give you the most intensely erotic stimulation. Maybe one of the most intense things about it is that you can get completely crazy for an orgasm but you can't actually come!!
Be careful where you wear these, if you like to do it in public. All the remote vibrators I've tried are at least a little noisy. But some of the 'bullets' and 'butterflys' are almost silent.
My husband likes to have me wear one of my butterflys to a restaurant or a movie. Usually there's enough noise in those places so the buzzing isn't noticeable. I can sit there , position the butterfly descretely (yes, they move around while you're walking - another limitation of them) and spread my thighs slightly. That allows the best contact. He will press the remote button from time to time. I'll have to let you imagine the rest. It's a matter of cooperating, him 'surprising' me at times, me asking for stimulation and/or a change in the rate of vibration at other times. I can get so close to orgasm that at times I just can't stand the frustration. I'll cover my lap with a napkin (if there's no tablecloth) and use my hand, over my clothes, to complete the stimulation to my clit and a wonderful orgasm. He loves to watch this.
I'd love to have one of the internal-external stimulators like the Rabbit which is wearable, but the couple of them I've tried are all way too noisy to use in public. We have tried one at home, 'hands free' for me, and it was absolutely wonderful all the way to a terrific orgasm. We did it with me half lying down in one of those lounging chairs, with my thighs up on the arms of it. It was actually a very comfortable and extremely sexy thing to do.