I wrote this earlier but I don't think it was sent. Here it is again just in case. I think that it is an important message for the young people to know that age doesen't mean that sex is gone from our lives.
Prostate cancer is something all men should be aware of and after age 50 regular PSA and digital exams should be a yearly event. My PSA was normal for years and then last year it went up. This called for a prostate biopsy and it turned out to be positive. This was a surprise because I am in good health, exercising and eating properly.
Up until now my wife and I enjoyed a full sex life in spite of our age. She is nearly my age, still firm and incredibly sexy. We enjoy all forms of intimacy including mutual masturbation. I chose to have the radiation seeds to treat my cancer and this can bring big changes to the genitalia. Sexual intercourse was no longer possible even with Viagra. The desire was still there but an erection was not. Oral and all the other stimulations did no good.
This meant that I had to take matters in my own hand. Masturbation, as I had always done it, became difficult with a soft penis. I had been watching my wife masturbate so I figured that if it could be so good for her without a hard penis maybe I could do it like she did. It was easy to tuck my soft penis back inside itself and stroke it like it was a clitoris. (That's the way we men started out in life as a fetus). In addition to my usual macho male ego image, my nipples are as big as hers have always been sensitive. My wife has always liked to pinch and pull on them when I am in her to make me cum. This gave my wife a way to join me by playing with my nipples while I stroked my new 'clit' with some lube. She got so excited that she joined in and fingered my 'clit' and hers at the same time while nibbling and pulling on my swollen nipples. This was enough to send us both over the top together. We both gushed and felt the wonderful satisfaction knowing that everything still works, but maybe not just like it did before. If all else fails, we figure that we can continue doing it this way for the next twenty years. After that, who knows what we will do.
P.S. The Doctor tells me that in a few months the radiation from the seed will subside and in time things will get back to normal.