I am a 53 year old married man. I still love my wife but she doesn't have the same interest in sex as I do. She thinks masturbation is wrong. She is OK about having sex 1 or 2 times a YEAR!!!
Thanks to computers and a program called netmeeting, I have a way to relieve myself and feel OK about doing it. I usually sign on to an ils server and wait for a call and meet people in similar position I am in. We talk with a mic or type on the screen. Soon we showing each other our private parts and go from there. I find it completely safe and no STD's. I read here about younger guys getting together and do it with each other before they were married. I wish now that I had friends when I was younger to masturbate with. I find that 90% of my online meetings are with guys. We masturbate together and sign off. Most of the guys are married who say they need something different.
One guy, who is 54 and married, has stopped by my office 2 times and we masturbated together. He even let me suck him for awhile. That was very strange feeling. I have had many a BJ and he has also. He said I was good at it. It felt normal to do. He said he may try doing it to me but for now my new friend and I masturbate together and then go home to our families.