My wife and I married in 1970, she was barely 18 years old and I was 22. We lived in Southern Illinois, that was our background, a rural, religious area, that was very conservative. I enlisted in the Navy to avoid going to Vietnam, and rode the submarines for five patrols for six years. She followed me from assignment to assignment as I was away on patrol for three months and then home with her for three months. When I would go on patrol the only sexual release I had was masturbation, usually I would stroke one out in the private shower stalls and sometimes in my rack if the time was right when other rack neighbors were away from their racks.
After I returned from my first patrol my wife caught me masturbating and told me she did not like me to do that as she felt that it deprived her of just one less erection for her to enjoy. This really turned me on as she truly did enjoy my erections. I committed to her that I would only masturbate when I was out on patrol and save myself for her enjoyment when at home. I did ask her to give me a hand job every now and then as I always like the 'firmness of the grip'. She was ok with that and proceeded to give me my first hand job from complete with me cumming in her hand. She used baby oil on me and it just blew me away. She had never seen me shoot straight in the air as I had always ejaculated in her pussy or her mouth.
We have now been married 40 years now and she still gives me hand jobs as a special treat for the both of us. For some reason she really enjoys this practice while we drive down the rural interstates, I think it has something to do with truckers that we pass by. Sometimes, she starts with a hand job and she always asks me to pass the trucks slowly. Frequently, I can see the truckers flashing their head lights as we pass.