Mom had 'woman to woman' talks with me about sex and boys. She 'warned' me about boys and there sexual drives but she over looked my sexual drives in these talks!
Back when I was 14 and 15 years old and sexually maturing, my mom would often sit me down and have talks with me about sex and boys. She literally warned me about boys and there strong desire to have sex (intercourse). She made it sound like boys were the only ones who had these desires and urges.
Then, when I started dating, I had this in my mind and was on guard against this urge boys have. The urge to get there aroused penises into girl's vaginas. Oh sure, they had these urges alright I found out. But, so did I! Mom never told me about this. I'd be on a date with a boy that I really liked and we'd get into some serious 'making out' and my pussy would get so aroused and wet. I knew what boys had between there legs and what it was for and I wanted it in me so bad.
At least mom also strongly got over to me about where babies come from and how they are made. When I was 17, I sure didn't want this! So, my boyfriend and I resorted to what came natural and instinctive. Our hands. We ended up with him fingering me and me jerking him off. Mom didn't tell me about this. We just seemed to know naturally about this because we sure used it to get each other off. Mom talked about boy's sperm but never told me about how boys release it. I found this out on my own by seeing it.
Well, mom tried. She just didn't tell me the whole story. At least I hope that she got pleasure out of 'making me' as much as I know my dad did. If not, she sure don't know what she missed!