Masturbation Brings My Only Orgasms
I am 31, married, with one child. Have been married for over 10 years. My husband's ideas on sexual behavior are not too creative and he thinks that intercourse (i call it masturbating with my vagina and ass) and his orgasm is it. If it were not for masturbation i would never have orgasms.
I think i have masturbated all my life and my earliest recollections are as a little girl and just rubbing and knowing it felt nice but not knowing exactly what i was doing. My mother caught me doing it once and said that nice girls didn't do that and i should never do it again. I remember being much more careful about doing it after that and continued on with my experimentation.
I was a late bloomer and didn't get breasts or body hair until much later than my peer group. I was always self conscious about it at sleep-overs and showering at the pool or gym class. About that time i also learned that what i was doing is what adults called masturbation and the teacher in health class said that it was normal. That was all i needed and i think i masturbated daily, maybe more frequently. I experimented with all sorts of methods and yet something was missing.
Finally found what was missing when another female helped me to really learn what it was like. Penetration and other body parts stimulated at the same time. Took me to another level completely. She was so understanding and encouraged me to use masturbation to find out what made ME feel good.
Still masturbate almost daily and think about females almost exclusively when i masturbate. Would love to share experiences and stories and techniques. I am completely open when it comes to sexual matters and will not be offended by anything you want to say or talk about.