I have beejn masturbating for quite some time now. Although married I somehow never lost the interest in masturbating. About 10 years or so ago I 'discovered' the sexual pleasure using the prostate. What explosions. I have had basically three dildos. Smaller, medium size, larger. My butt has accepted them with no problem. Lately I have used a vibrating butt plug of about four inches long. The plug rests on the prostate itself. You sit on your plug, lay down on the bed and let the vibrations work up your male 'G' spot. The explosion will cum without touching your cock.