I'm an 'older' guy, 60+, happily married & sexually active. I'm convinced regular ejaculation helps keep the 'plumbing' working! Masturbation is a frequent addition to straight sex with the wife.
Sometimes more that just a quick orgasm/ejaculation is pleasurable for me. While quite lengthy, the following process is VERY rewarding if followed!
• Plan ahead for 3-4 hours uninterrupted time alone. (I plan for late evening time when my wife visits sister for the weekend)
• Set a specific goal (time) that you will wait to ejaculate.
• No touching penis until that time is reached. (except to lightly dab the precum that will flow!)
• No 'humping' except 'air thrusts' until the goal time is reached.
• Drink plenty of fluids. (No alcohol to dull the sensations - Feels great with a full bladder!)
I start with 1 to 3 of the pre-prepared enemas. I like to have my rectum cleansed (& empty) for maximum prostate stimulation. Take plenty of time to be sure you completely evacuate. You don't want that interruption later! Be sure to practice strict hygiene!
Follow up with a hot bath or shower.
I really enjoy prostate stimulation & have a battery powered bullet type vide that is really strong. There is always concern of 'loosing' them in your rectum so I enclose it in a good strong condom with a knot around the cord. This allows for easy removal & cleanup. Using plenty of KY, I insert it 2 -3 inches, which gets it snugly against my prostate.
By this point I'm maybe a hour into the process. I gently run the vibe.. Read a few stories on this site.... Look at a few sexy pictures or videos... Then call 'time out' and turn the vibe off, lying on the sofa, close my eyes & take several deep breaths. During this time I will have gone from flaccid to fully erect & various stages in between.
This part gets repeated numerous times... Sometimes I'm doing routine household chores during my 'rest' periods... Sometimes I'll make a run to the food store. It's a real turn on to be chatting with a cute checkout girl with the vibe silently buzzing in your rectum! (Gotta be careful here - don't want to be searched by security for having your hand in your pocket!)
Each time the process is repeated the urge/desire to orgasm intensifies! I'm more & more aware of my penis & pressure in my testicles! Erections are almost continuous now... even during 'rest periods'. Precum flows more & more..
Finally, the appointed hour arrives! Release & relief can now be achieved! Any method of masturbation will bring a most rewarding ejaculation.
Please post your comments & tips!