So, there was a gay couple I used to work with. For the purpose of this story they will be Karen and Natalie. Karen is the more tomboyish nerd and video gamer of the two. Well we all started hanging out more after they took new jobs. Natalie was headed out of town for a couple days so Karen invited me over to eat pizza, drink beer, and play video games. Somehow, after browsing their DVD collection, which included L Word, it turned into searching out hot actresses online and watching sexy videos. We also were discussing the differences between genders and hetero vs homosexual sex. Very entertaining conversation lol.
The problem was the more I watched, the more turned on I get. We were watching people like Eliza Dushku, scenes from the L Word, Anne Hathaway, Kate Winslet, amateur videos... it just kept going. Karen told me she knew I must be hard, and it didn't bother her, but I was getting to the point where I'd need to get off, rather than let it die away. She told me I could always go in the bathroom and finish off. She would understand. I joked to her that as much as I wanted to, I prefer having lube. This led to a brief discussion on how dry can be rough for men and also erections don't always die away just because we came. She didn't know that.
Karen told me she has safe sex kits because she was a community organizer who taught safe sex to kids locally, and there was lube in them. Sure enough she gave me a packet with two condoms, a pamphlet, and a small pack of natural lube. It wasn't easy for me to finish up in a strange bathroom, but it did feel so good. When I came out I advised we go back to video gaming for a while, but she was cool about it.
It's fun having lesbians as friends. Truly. Women are much more laid back, and having somebody you can hold a conversation about sex and women with, without worrying about the potential for something foolish to happen, was nice. Plus there's a better chance they'll want to play shooting games with you.