I discovered Solo Touch by accident about a month ago and really enjoy reading all of it. Let me share with your readers what I do. I take my camera with me and head out to the beach, park, or mall. When I see a lady I am curious about I simply walk up to her and say something like 'Hi, my name is John, would you mind if I ask you a very personal question?'
Some will just walk away; others have said, 'Yes I would mind'. But the ones that say 'Go ahead' or 'What is it?' makes it all worth it.
I then say, 'I mean this is VERY private' They may walk away at this point but most have not. So I ask, 'Do you pleasure yourself?' Pleasure yourself sounds more playful than masturbate. Their reply often times is, 'Do you mean if I masturbate?' I say 'Yes' and most times they will answer with a 'Yes'.
If I see she is laughing at my question and answers it, I try to get a little bit more info. I say something like, 'Now that we got that BIG question out of the way, would you mind telling me on average how often? Toys or fingers? And the most daring place you've done it at'.
I usually will get answers and, of course, they ask me why am I asking these things. I tell them 'So I can remember your reply when I do it.'
I then ask if I can take a photo, she will say 'Is this for a publication?' Or, 'What are you going to use it for.' I reply 'No, it's just for me, and you know exactly what I'll use it for'
The photo is taken, I thank her for her time and being open about this conversation.
I make notes on the back of her photo about what she told me, go home and pleasure myself while looking at her picture.