Before you plan to be married openly discuss your future plans together especially concerning sexually compatible.
First marriages aren't always successful as many couples are usually too young to understand how important it is to openly discuss their future together, especially regarding whether or not they are sexually compatible. After the initial lust is over a marriage is usually short lived.
When my second wife and I married we were middle aged and had experienced the pitfalls of not being sexually compatible as we had been in our first marriages so we had discussed all aspects regarding what we enjoyed sexually.
I wrote 'Amazing Phone Call Led To' which is 100% true in 2007.
When we made love, in addition to penetrative and oral sex, we routinely enjoyed mutual masturbation as foreplay. One night I attempted to convince her it's longer than it seems for a six inch erect penis actually measures twelve as it extends internally for about another six. She couldn't understand and since I already had an erection to prove to it I asked her to press two fingers just below my scrotum so she could feel it pulsate like it does when I cum. I then contracted my PC muscles 3 or 4 times and asked, 'Can you feel it pulsate?' She said ,'Yes'. She enjoyed watching me masturbate and cum so I said, 'Give me a minute and you can feel how strong it pulsates when I ejaculate'. When I came she finally believed me and agreed there was definitely more to it than meets the eye.
She and I enjoyed a wonderful marriage together as well as a fantastic sex life. Fast forward....50+ years later .... Unfortunately she passed away a few years ago however I continue to enjoy daily masturbation as she left me with many fond memories. Last week I remembered the episode I just mentioned and when I was ready to cum I pressed two fingers firmly just below my scrotum and was astonished how forceful the orgasm pulsations still were. If you have never experienced the intense sensation try it the next time you are ready to cum.
Better yet if your wife enjoys watching you masturbate until you cum ask her to masturbate with you. It never hurts to ask you know! Quite often something new and exciting may lead to a new world of mutual satisfaction.