I have been happily married for 45 years and until recently, have had a satisfying sex life, that is until arthritis came along and made it almost impossible for me. My husband is very kind and understanding, but although of the same age, still has an avid sexual appetite and not surprisingly has resorted to masturbation.
At first he would do this in the privacy of the bathroom, although I think that he suspected, rightfully, that I was aware of what he was doing. However, recently he has turned to masturbating in bed beside me, believing me to be asleep. He seems to enjoy playing with himself and has even begun to whisper as he toys with his cock, saying such things as, 'Do you like my big cock' and 'I love wanking beside you darling', and has even told me about things he did as a boy.
The surprising thing is that I find this a real turn on and although I cannot relieve myself or ask him to oblige, as it is so painful for me, I love seeing him enjoy himself in this way and now find myself encouraging him by making loud 'dreaming' noises and then peep at his lovely cock as he strokes it and knocks it about and breathes heavily as he comes to his climax. I suppose I have now become a Voyeur, but find it such a lovely substitute for pleasures I once enjoyed. I only hope that my husband remains randy for years to come and gets more adventurous in his 'secret' activities, it is lovely watching.