See 'Finding a J-O Partner' in the archive for background.
I have long fantasized about mutual masturbation with another guy. But I was reluctant to approach a friend for fear he'd not agree and within an hour and a half the whole town would think I was 'weird'. So, I proceeded to drop hints (some not so subtle) hoping one of them would pick up on it. No dice.
I apologize that this is so long but feel that telling how I was able to live my fantasy is worth it.
Several weeks ago, I was on a website looking for a used tool and noticed a 'men seeking men' section. I observed it for several days and concluded that while a lot of the postings were beyond 'weird', the site, because it could be area specific, might be my solution.
I went to a lot of trouble drafting a posting which made it clear that all I wanted was a friend that I could masturbate with. I was not interested in oral, anal, a 'lifetime partner', 'boyfriend', 'significant other' or a one-time thrill. My posting included pictures of me below the waist showing my cock limp, semi, and hard.
I received eleven responses the first day. Interestingly, there have been none since. Several of the responders must have never read my post as their responses suggested much more than I proposed. I ended up with four credible responses. I followed-up with the four. I trashed and locked the rest out of my email..
After several email exchanges and phone conversations, Bucky and I were both comfortable that we maybe could be J-O buddies and agreed to meet at a fast food in the next town yesterday. An hour later, I invited him to my house. We sat in the living room chatting for a few minutes. We were both real nervous because this was to be the first guy-to-guy sexual experience for either of us. (I didn't sleep well the night before - like a kid on Christmas Eve.) When he asked: 'well, what do you think?' I said, 'I think we're ready but how do we start?' His suggestion was that we undress. I stood, motioned him up and removed his shirts and lowered his pants (our shoes were already off) and stood back so he could undress me. We both stood there in our underwear. Surprisingly, neither was hard. He felt my bulge. I removed his underwear and fondled his balls. From there on it was heaven on earth. For two hours we jacked each other off. Sometimes taking turns and sometimes simultaneously. His orgasm was off the map. Because I'd jacked-off twice the night before (remember my inability to sleep) and because of my age I was unable to cum. I'm sure this will change because we have arranged for a repeat tomorrow. While we had agreed to mutual masturbation only, I sense that both of us are thinking that more could be possible. Time will tell.
For those of you who have not tried it, I want to say that as great as jacking-off feels, it is even better stroking another cock, fondling another's balls and having someone else do it to you. YOU HAVE TO TRY IT.