I have read several articles here from men who want to masturbate with their wife watching but don't know how to bring up the subject.
Let me describe my first experience. I know my wife likes to be fully satisfied each time we have sex and would not agree to me finishing myself off if she hadn't had a climax. But like many men I wanted the erotic experience of having her watch me masturbate and ejaculate. So I devised a little plan. One night we were having wild sex after reading some sexy magazines which we often look at in bed before starting the action.
I was entering her from behind (our favourite position) and she was telling me to go faster and harder as she was cumming. At this point I also was desperate to cum but I was determined not to let it happen. I shouted and groaned as though I was cumming inside her but just about managed enough self control to prevent it. I just tried to focus on something other than sex and it worked. She climaxed and I collapsed beside her as though I had just had an equally wonderful finish.
After having sex we usually lie on our backs for a while talking about how good it was. Of course, unknown to her, I still needed to cum and this was now my opportunity.
I said I didn't finish the story in the magazine and was just going to finish reading it. I got the magazine and after a couple of minutes my cock (which had hardly gone down) was fully erect again. Seeing my hard cock she said 'I didn't expect it to have that effect again so soon'. I said 'neither did I' and I started touching myself. Holding my hard cock I moved the foreskin up and down. She said 'I think that's a waste of time, you'll never finish again so soon'. I said 'I might'. It feels like I may have a little more left. 'Let's see if you can do it then' she urged me. She was now able to relax and enjoy the show and she wanted me to carry on.
'Do you feel like you will cum again' she asked. She wanted me to tell her what it felt like as I masturbated. By now I had put down the magazine and I was playing with my cock as she watched with great interest at the sight of me masturbating. 'Keep doing it' she said. 'I want to see if you can make yourself cum. Her conversation urging me on was turning me on even more. I felt myself about to cum. I couldn't hold back any longer. 'This is it' I quickly told her 'I'm going to cum'. I held my cock tight at the base and as she focused intently on it my cum shot out in several spurts onto the bed and some onto the magazine which was just beside us. It took several seconds to stop spurting out, while all the time she gazed in amazement. It felt so rude and erotic to have her watch me bring myself off.
At last I had been able to masturbate for my wife without any inhibitions and fully with her consent. She found that she was unexpectedly turned on by it and we have done it again since. Now when she is having her period and is unable to have sex she sometimes asks if I want to look at my magazines (meaning do I want to masturbate). I, of course, am eager to agree. I turn a couple of pages and then get down to the business of masturbating, which she watches especially as I shoot my cum out, which she finds really exciting.
Perhaps other men would like to try this trick of faking an orgasm sometimes to leave them free and able to finish off by hand with the wife watching.