My family never talked about masturbation or about sex for that matter. My grandmother gave me books to read about puberty, but nothing was ever said. A friend once told me while we were walking home from school about white stuff that came from your penis when you slept. If it wasn't for him, I might have freaked the first time.
I was 13 years old when I first masturbated. I was staying at my grandfather's house one weekend. He had a recliner chair he always sat in. Next to it was his hand-held massager for his neck and back. After he went to sleep one night, I was using the massager on myself. Naturally it drifted toward my private area. It felt really nice. As I let it linger there it happened. I didn't know what this feeling was, but it was amazing. I tried it again the next night. I was addicted from then on. This time I had to go to the restroom afterward. As I reached in for my penis, I felt this sticky stuff. I remembered what my friend had told me. I thought, 'It has finally happened. I am a man.' Needless to say I really enjoyed visiting my grandfather after that. Once I used the massager so much I got a bubble type growth right below my penis head. I must have done it four times that day.
I hadn't been over to my grandfather's house for several months when I had my first wet dream at 14 years old. I have always thought the reason I didn't have a wet dream sooner was because of my frequent visits to my grandfather's house. The only negative thing about masturbating with a vibrator is I never masturbated with my hand until I was about 21. I will submit that story soon. I missed out on a lot of action in between visits.