I learned that my 'orgasms' I had during masturbation were not real orgasms at all!
I found a boyfriend quite quickly at college and we started by making out, and that quickly turned into some pretty heavy petting. (I am English, by the way, so some of the terminology may be different, I guess.)
I realised that as Steve fingered me, I started to get this huge urge to pee. Of course, I clamped down on it and fought it hard. It was there, but controllable. It also meant I didnt cum with him which was odd because I don't have a problem getting myself off-or so I thought.
Then came the time that we wanted to 'do it'. Oh, don't worry Mr Censor, this is about going the whole route, mainly because I was scared to and we decided that a vibrator or dildo would be the best start.
Well, we started off with our usual kissing, touching, and fingering and then, when I felt ready, we tried the dildo he had bought. I knew it was unlikely to hurt because my hymen tore when I was 13 owing to an accident on my bike. Holy FUCK it felt good to be filled so much, and I was just about to ask him to take it out and fuck me, when my urge to pee welled up from nowhere. I actually started to cry. Steve asked me what was wrong and I told him that I felt I was about to wet myself. Bless him, he smiled and said 'Now THAT would be one hell of a turn on, go for it.' Well, we were in his room on his bed, so instead of trying to hold my pee back, I did the opposite and actually tried to wet myself.
The result was that I had the mother of all orgasms, nothing like the little trembles I had felt before, and here's the thing, I DIDN'T pee! But SHIT, that orgasm!!!! DAMN!
Steve looked disappointed, bless him, well, a little anyway, so I put my panties back on and peed just for him.
So girls, if you are wondering if you have had an orgasm, let me tell you, you HAVEN'T. There is NO mistaking the big 'O'.And if you are with the right guy, it won't matter a jot if you do pee.
Steve and I have a sex life second to none now. Nothing is off the menu, but we still enjoy masturbating ourselves or each other.