My favorite way to jack off is to grease my cock and hand generously (I like vaseline)and then stroke it in the normal way until I reach the verge of ejaculation. All men know when that is. Then by slowing down and working my cock very slowly and very gently, I can keep myself right at the 'almost shooting it' point of maximum arousal for a long time without the need to stop stroking entirely. My cock swells up to its biggest possible size and is as hard as a diamond, my balls pull up tight against my body, and it feels SO good, so VERY good that I can't even describe how great it is. I'm getting hard now just writing about how good it feels!
After I tease myself for 10 or 15 minutes or as long as I want, I just speed up when I want to shoot my load. After all that arousal it often flies for several feet, even at my age. It takes some practice and self control to do the tease part, but the results are worth it!!