I've masturbated a lot of different ways over the years. I have a girlfriend who takes care of my needs when I see her but sometimes a good fantasy, some porn and a pull is just what's needed.
When I started I used to rub against the bed. I felt guilty but I found that if I didn't have a cum I'd have wet dreams and wake up with a big load in my pajamas-and always after a very erotic dream.
The dreams were about the strangest things; teachers, girls I knew or saw in the streets, a friend's mother and once my sister (although I have never thought of her sexually). I guess we all have strange things going on in our subconscious.
Does anyone else find their erotic dreams strange or do you all masturbate too much to have them (as I do)?
Apart from my hands I've used several ways to masturbate-almost anything with a suitable size hole that didn't hurt my dick. Most weren't very satisfying. However, I found a cantalope with a hole cut in it and warmed in the microwave was very good. Seems it is still a popular method. But it is inconvenient and messy.
Recently I bought a Fleshlight. The sales girl in the sex shop said it was by far the most popular male masturbation toy she sold and she'd had good feedback. I find it very good.
I usually look at some porn, fantsise and stroke my dick until I'm ready, then slip the Fleshlight between a couple of couch cushions, lube the 'cunt' and my dick, poke my hard cock into the wet hole and fuck it. Sometimes I warm it first.
My favourite fantasies involve several guys and one girl, watching a girl getting fucked and cumming on her face while her boyfriend is still doing her, fucking a girl hard against a wall in an alley, incest (usually brother and sister-my favorite is where they're having an innocent wrestle and he cums in his pants).
Do many other guys use Fleshlights or similar devices? The girls have their toys so I don't see why we shouldn't as well.
My favorite masturbation memory is being at a party with a girl who thought she would tease me by pulling my dick out of my pants while we were dancing in a very dark room. Other dancers didn't know what was happening but I shot off all over her slacks. She was not happy.