Husbands delight, accountant's accuracy nightmare............
While understanding the boundaries of this site I wish to share the impact of masturbation on the magnificent sex life my wife and I share. Our lovemaking usually starts with kissing and caressing which leads to my erection. Once my pre-cum starts flowing my wife become fixated on using my pre-cum to moisten her clit and massages same.
Observing this only creates a cycle where I get more and more turned on and she keeps using the moisture I am producing. Watching her pleasure herself while stroking me drives me wild. While she works her clit she often cums and continues to play uninterruptedly. She then slides her moist thumb into her vagina and and continues the vaginal and clitoral stimulation. While I am wildly impassioned I simply must lick and fondle her clit with my tongue in various areas until I can no longer hold off from taking her clit into my mouth and gently sucking up and down its entire length. At this point I often need to feel my tongue penetrating her vagina which is always spotless and so very wet. I love to feel my tongue fully inserted and wish my tongue was longer. Her fiery responses only serve to turn me on more.
At times I try to suck her clit while she stimulates her vagina but the intensity and urgency we both are feeling makes accuracy challenging.
Eventually we progress to items beyond the boundaries of this site although completion can be intra vaginal or other depending on timing and mood. The most incredible part of these behaviors is that our individual degree of being turned only heightens the intensity.
The greatest pleasures pleasures are a reflection of how turned on my wife gets and this in turn makes me even more turned on.
I know that some people are so orgasm oriented that they treat the orgasm like a goal, rather than a relaxed side effect that is almost an incidental side dish of true passionate lovemaking. Sometimes she will also pinch and lick her nipples which simply drive me even more our of my mind.
The more turned on she gets the wilder I feel. When we are making love and she reaches the intensity where she stimulate her nipples I simply feel like I am about to loose my mind from being so turned on.
One day I decided to try to (silently) count the number of orgasms my wife experienced during our lovemaking. I counted at least eleven separate episodes of convulsive tremors EXCLUDING another certain orgasm during the portion of the lovemaking excluded by the boundaries of this site.
My point is simple. While I am very aware that we are incredibly lucky to have each other, and that by relaxing and sharing the masturbatory elements of lovemaking, the actual number of orgasms simply doesn't matter. The intensity of each of our feelings feeds into a cycle that keeps building and then leads most often to our intense mutual satisfaction.
While my orgasms are incredibly pleasurable, there are times when I do not cum but have been so turned on for so long that I feel completely satisfied and even get to that point of post orgasmic male shuttering and almost discomfort when stimulated following a true ejaculatory orgasm.
Of interest to me is that I often am so completely exhausted that I can barely move and my wife will sometimes get up and go on with her day acting quite re-energized. I am thankful that we do not have to understand these behaviors to experience them.