I have a perfect lover, this is my middle finger. I had some male adventures, but my middle finger has been the only one to know how to treat my clit from the very beginning of my sexual life. I do not need any penetration, clitoral stimulation is my only way to achieve orgasm. So I think I am quite a boring average woman.
There is only one thing that seems to make me singular: I was a really early beginner, I started at age six or seven. Ok, there are several other women remembering such an early age, but they all tell about various indirect ways, rubbing against the pillow, teddy bear, using the shower head etc. I can remember my grown-up style from my very beginning. This means finger-on-the-clit-routine every night before sleeping. (Maybe some other women have similar memories?) I pulled down my panties a little, covered by the blanket(security). I stretched my whole body, legs nearly close together(necessary for the big feeling). After some foreplay, getting some saliva, I put my middle finger on the clit and started to rub it in a diagonal motion. It was a rapid motion from the beginning. Rapid means about four, finally maybe even six circles per second. From time to time my hand had to slow down to relax. After about two minutes the grand rubbing final started, and then my legs made little pumping motions to pump the orgasm out of my body.
This was my natural sleeping medicine. I can remember this rather exactly since nearly nothing has changed until today. I have kept my masturbation style for 45 years now and don't want to change anything.