Well, I'm not a very dominant person, but I do get off a bit on the idea of restraining and/or spanking a willing female. I've been aroused by the sounds of a woman being spanked. Somehow more erotic than simple passion. Or maybe not. There's just something about it. And when I think of what I could do with a female who's tied up...I can't help getting hard.
So I was on a telephone chat line (not phone sex) and I heard this one twenty-year-old girl's greeting which went something like this:
'Hey guys! I'm a very horny girl in (my) area, just looking to fulfill a fantasy. My fantasy is for a guy to tie me up, blindfold me and have his way with me. Yeah, that would be great! So if it's part of your fantasy to have your way with a woman, then get to me. I also have another fantasy that maybe you might enjoy. It's for me to be a slave to a guy and the guy to be my master, and I'll call him Master. And he tells me whatever he wants me to do and of course, I have to obey him, I'm just a slave. But if I don't obey you, you have to punish me. Yeah, give me a little slap on the ass. So here are my little fantasies I want to fulfill. If you want to help me, go ahead and leave me a message, I'll probably give you my number, and we could probably get together and you can help me fulfill my fantasies. All right, goodbye guys!'
Wow! That got my attention and got me hard too. Well, I sent her a couple of messages and I honestly didn't expect to hear back from her, but I did. She actually left me her cell number and suggested we go on a date and get to know each other. Well, you're probably thinking, 'Go for it! Call her! What are you waiting for?' I don't know. Like I said, I reacted to the enthusiasm in her greeting and sent her the messages not really thinking she'd be interested, and now that she is... I don't know what to do. I don't have much experience with women. I'm insecure about myself and my ability to satisfy. I'm not dominant. I'm probably not what she's looking for, in short, a 'real man' (confident, experienced, etc) who knows what he's doing.
Crazy, isn't it, here I am with a potential partner waiting to hear from me and I may be too timid to call her. I got so fired up thinking about what could happen between us that I broke down and jerked off. I even wondered if we might end up having phone sex before we ever met. Of course, that won't happen if I don't get in touch with her again.
I think its sheer horniness that motivates me to try contacting people like her, but when I'm not horny, I'm too conservative, to cautious, too much of a non-risk-taker to try anything.
Well, I can't wait too long. I'll have to make my decision and live with it one way or the other. If you'd like to comment, please do so, and of course, if anything does happen, I'll write again.
Happy jacking and jilling!