This happened about two years ago or so
Well, this happened quite some time ago. I was seeing this girl (I'll call her Lyn). We weren't dating or anything. She didn't want anything serious. But when she was sleeping over, we started by reaching to each other a bit, and finally wound up kissing. That was really great.
This was really hard for both of us. I really wanted to have a relationship, but she didn't. But we both liked the kissing. And when I slept over at her place, we started to kiss again. I'm not that good at controlling my desires. So I started to gently touch her breasts. Afterwards she told me she was a bit scared when I did that. And after that, my hand slowly slid downwards. She stopped me at first, but then guided my hand down her pants. This being my first time, I almost instantly slipped my finger into her vagina. It felt real strange, it wasn't what I expected. I rubbed her for a time and she started to rub her crotch against me and I could feel her body shake sometimes. After some time, she took out my hand, stopped kissing and hugged me. She didn't come, but said it wasn't necesarry.
Another night, back at my place, she returned the favor. At first I was a bit shocked, because I was the one who initiated most of the kissing. She played around a bit, and it was strange, because when she was jacking me off, I was still concentrating on the kissing. I realised that and started to focus on the jacking. I came and it felt real nice. After some time she told me that she did it as a 'debt' she had with me. That wasn't really nice to hear, but it doesn't mean I didn't like the experience.