Okay, first of all first ever submission to the site, I love it, if I had more stuff to share I would. Second for those who know me, one of which I am pretty sure reads through this site, know I am a pretty open person with my sexuality so this shouldn't be 'too' big of a shock...
My comment is mainly meant for guys or girls for their guys.
Okay down to it, I had to give up something for a few weeks, I am sure many of you know what I am talking about, so sadly I gave up....let your mind wander. Today being the day I can return to my activities I found it quite difficult. Over the time I had been edging myself since I still like the feeling of closeness. Before starting my personal ban, I usually got off quite fast, but as I write this I am doing what I can to get off quickly, I am watching some entertainment, and all the stuff I enjoy like reading others' entries, and yet...3 hours later I am hard and still have yet to get off. Strange, though I can't say I have been working for it 'entirely' during this time. So, my tip to all of you guys and again girls for your guys, is that though it is difficult to stop for that long, it is effective in prolonging yourself. Keep in mind though to pace yourself.
Miscellaneous advice from my background..sometimes you gotta take the initiative, and another is never underestimate what you think you can acheive.
good night to all and enjoy yourselves!