I don't want to go into a long story so just let me say I was married for 12 years and have two kids. My husband and I had good sex together but it was other problems that caused our divorce.
The first year I never dated anyone and my only outlet was masturbation. I even bought myself a dildo that's a combination vibrator. All the years I was married it was seldom that my husband and I masturbated each other and our sex life consisted of mostly straight sex.
I met Grady at a New Years Eve party this year and have been dating him ever since. The first date I had with him all we did was talk, for hours on end. He's a few years younger than me but we hit it off right away. We talked about everything and I think because I was drinking quite a bit that night admitted things I normally wouldn't tell anyone. I told him how I hadn't had sex and that I masturbated often and even told him about my dildo/vibrator. He also confessed to me that he masturbated frequently.
We went out the following weekend and I was wary of having sex with him so soon but as soon as we started making out I was aroused. It got hot and heavy but neither of us actually took all our clothes off but we did masturbate each other. His penis isn't as big as my husbands was and I think he was a little self conscious about the size of it. It didn't bother me in the least and I told him so.
The following Saturday night I got my parents to watch my kids overnight and invited him to my house for dinner. We ended up naked in my bed and the only thing we did was masturbate each other and he especially enjoyed using my dildo on me. I think I orgasmed five or six times and he was able to cum twice that night and once before he left in the morning.
Since then we do have other sex but in all the years I was married never had so much fun with masturbation. We began giving each other full body massages and it started with him shaving my pubic hair but now I also do it to him and cleanly shave his scrotum also. He didn't want me to shave him at first but when I told him it makes his penis look larger he agreed to it. I bought two plastic mattress covers and we sometimes just lay side by side naked with hot oil all over us. We just play with each other and giggle and laugh for the longest time and I can't believe how often I orgasm. When we shower afterwards we wash each other and again masturbate each other. I never did any of these things with my husband and orgasm more now than I have ever in my entire life.
Just the way Grady touches and looks at my body turns me on especially when he rubs the hot baby oil on me. He teases me by getting me so aroused I start begging him to satisfy me. He just keeps touching my vagina lightly and fingering me off and on before he puts the dildo in me sometimes vibrating but often not. He says he likes to watch me climax and my husband never even said that to me. Its become a game with us teasing each other and sometimes I play with his testicals and penis until he gets a full erection and let him get soft again before I actually maturbate him. Because I beg him to satisfy me most of the time I make him plead with me to make him cum. We do have straight sex sometimes but in all the years I was married, never knew what I was missing. When Grady and I masturbate each other its not just to make each other have an orgasm. Its just so much fun pleasing and stimulating each other. We talk openly about places we like to be touched and that's another thing my X and I never did.