Dad's masturbate, too.
Fantasies, I have a few. Desire for sex? All the time. I eat right and exercise quite regularly. I believe the eating and exercise part help to keep my libido strong and my looks still attractive. I get looked at by girls and women who are younger than me, women my age generally do not, I think they believe I am too young for them (little do they know). I still get great stiff erections as my wife told me last night. My wife desires sex about once a week, I could make love every day if she wanted, therefore I still masturbate.
When I was younger I was ashamed that I masturbated. Sex was never talked about at home and I would be surprised if my parents had sex more than once or twice a year. It probably has been 20yrs since they had sex, my poor ol' Dad. But I still had almost an uncontrollable need to get hard and rub until I came. My body seemed to demand it. As I've matured I have come to realise that masturbation is just as good for my body as eating right, physically and mentally.
I am not into panties or sticking things up my butt, usually my only masturbation aid is my memories of previous encounters with my wife, with her lips wrapped around my penis amd looking at me very lovingly, like she is satisfying a desire and she loves satisfying my desires.
I have fantasies of showing my nude body off, I would love to have a little role reversal, the woman masturbating to my nude body. I go crazy for a woman spreading her legs, inviting me into her private world where she unleashes all of her sexual tensions and it is so naturally beautiful.
Of course my wife likes to watch me touch myself, and I like watching her use her magic wand, this has made our sex together better. I do not ejaculate by my hand when we have sex, I love to penetrate.
We are both upfront with each other about our masturbation habits, I encourage her to masturbate when I am at work. Sort of like keeping her body in sexual shape. I enjoy watching a woman use a dildo, there is something about that, like she HAS to have something penetrate her and of course while she is moving the dildo in and out her eyes are locked on me and they say it all! So erotic!
Finally I like to read the stories and the global nature of this site. It seems there are quite a few 'wankers' in the UK. I think we are a bit more 'hung up' about masturbation here in the States. I am surprised about the stories that address 'family masturbation', it never entered my mind that Mom's would like to watch their daughter's or son's or that daughter's would like to catch their dad's masturbating. I think I am a bit 'vanilla' in my sexual desires and thoughts compared to the stories. I go for adult female vagina. I also am now finding out that a little anonymous sexual confession like this is a turn on too. Enjoy!