I submitted a reply to this contribution last year but I feel it deserves repeating.
Can't Help Remembering by BC (71) posted on Aug 9, 2007 #26911
Masturbation Play With Wife
Reading this story brought back memories of our days of 'learning from each other'. Our primary area of enjoyment many times was masturbating together and watching each other enjoy ourselves. We masturbated ourselves or each other. Either way was so arousing!
Many times I would let her lie back and enjoy being taken care of and she would usually return the favor afterwards. Masturbating your partner is such an invigorating experience to watch the expression on their face and their body movements as they seem to be in a world of ecstasy and eventually come to a shuttering climax. She would usually return the favor or just watch me masturbate if she was still coming down from her high.
We eventually learned to enjoy each others cum. She had always enjoyed tasting hers as well as mine and finally taught me to do the same. I think it boils down to 'Do for or unto others', provided it is enjoyable to both.
Sexual experiences between partners are not meant to become stagnant. New techniques and trial and error methods usually add a special spice to make a lasting and loving relationship.
Sharing your hidden desires and fantasies can bring a whole new meaning to sexual enjoyment. It was so surprising, when we were watching a video, how many techniques we found to try which had never crossed out minds or were too embarrassed to ask.
Contrary to some comments I have read on Solo Touch, females are as sexual or more so than males. They just need some TLC and understanding for them to open up and overcome the stigma of the things they were taught that 'nice girls' just do not do.